I fully agree with you that author has every right to draw and white the story however they want, but when the top comment is "most proper BDSM i have ever read..." that is when I get really concerned, because this, in fact is not healthy or proper representation of BDSM relationship. And yes, not everyone needs a safe world, but people in relationship without it need to know each other very well.These two just literally met.
Do you think that what you just read is safe and healthy BDSM?
no, then again, I'm twisted beyond repair so my concepts and tolerance for some things are way higher than others. So, even though is not "proper" healthy bdsm, it's not that concerning to me either cause I've seen worse. But I do agree with you tho.
I know this isn't part if the topic but......My twisted and insensitive has been triggered by a video,kind disturbing and super disgusting go to youtube and search "GOOSH GOOSH" u'll see something. Don't watch it in a crowded place tho.
Aaaand you're posting this here because...?
to destroy the mind of others.....?
True. True. True.
Holy three of BDSM is safe, sane, consensual. And here, the important talk about rules (really basic - like where is safe Word when they just met?) was in chapter 4. Uke was drunk when he gave "consent".
I love how people are creating a ruckus over whether this is an actual representation of BDSM S/M or not. I love how y'all forgetting that this is A FANTASY WORK. The author has any right to portray this however they like and however best suits the story they had in their mind. If people cannot make the difference between real life BDSM (That I can legit say most of you all have never been a part of or even have the time to really really educate yourselves about it)and fantasy bdsm, they y'all too young to be even reading this. Take my advice and, if the book is not your cup of tea, just leave and let the rest of us enjoy this without having to read the complains on how this was extremely fake and all that. Just a heads up, the S/M world is not black and white and they have way more subgroups that any other category under bdsm... including the 24/7 TPE where safewords do not exist.
Also, if y'all wanna know how a real bdsm relationship works, hmu and I'll gladly mentor you out n.n
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