If you can’t even see that cooling period sometimes is necessary and a healthy thing to do in a serious and long-term relationship. Especially for young people who are going through many major life decisions and permanent changes, it’s easy to find themselves in a place when their own life doesn’t align with their partner’s at all. Miscommunication is obviously one of the big problems between these two and taking a step back is much wiser than keeping on with the meaningless fights and misunderstanding. Yes, it’s a selfish thing to do, yes, it’s gonna hurt the other party, Maya is even more damaged because he still doesn’t understand where it went wrong, yes, it’s better to leave his partner alone and whait patiently until Nemu want to talk. Nemu has never been the dominant one in this relationship so I’m fucking proud of him to realise that he needs to reevaluate his feelings and actually do it.
If you can’t even see that cooling period sometimes is necessary and a healthy thing to do in a serious and long-term relationship. Especially for young people who are going through many major life decisions and permanent changes, it’s easy to find themselves in a place when their own life doesn’t align with their partner’s at all. Miscommunication is obviously one of the big problems between these two and taking a step back is much wiser than keeping on with the meaningless fights and misunderstanding. Yes, it’s a selfish thing to do, yes, it’s gonna hurt the other party, Maya is even more damaged because he still doesn’t understand where it went wrong, yes, it’s better to leave his partner alone and whait patiently until Nemu want to talk. Nemu has never been the dominant one in this relationship so I’m fucking proud of him to realise that he needs to reevaluate his feelings and actually do it.