Real talk.

GoSpark November 26, 2019 10:51 am

Isnt it really tiring like.. relationship wise if you have se- so often...?wont you get tired of each other fast? (=・ω・=)
(Never had a SO yet.. im curious. ._.)

Responses
    Peach November 26, 2019 11:06 am

    But if you feel good from your lovers body all the time, wouldn't you not get tired of it? ( I don't mean they should always have sex, loving the personality is better)

    Aly November 26, 2019 11:24 am

    It's tiering. If it wore up to my boyfriend we would do it 2 times a day. But I can't sometimes I need a day off, just to cuddle.

    GoSpark November 26, 2019 11:50 am
    But if you feel good from your lovers body all the time, wouldn't you not get tired of it? ( I don't mean they should always have sex, loving the personality is better) Peach

    I see.. somehow i feel averse towards intimacy, so i often wonder when reading mangas like these.. if i were to be as receptive to touch, how will it go? Though.. mangas arent really a good reference to how you should go about if one day you have an SO even if its based on life. XD

    But yeah.. i agree on personality. Maybe i should find a partner who doesnt mind having a se-less life. -- ill die single LOL

    bjskz November 26, 2019 11:54 am
    I see.. somehow i feel averse towards intimacy, so i often wonder when reading mangas like these.. if i were to be as receptive to touch, how will it go? Though.. mangas arent really a good reference to how yo... GoSpark

    if you want a romantic relationship, you could always try looking for openly asexual people! then you'll both feel comfortable from the start and have a happy relationship :D

    GoSpark November 26, 2019 12:03 pm
    It's tiering. If it wore up to my boyfriend we would do it 2 times a day. But I can't sometimes I need a day off, just to cuddle. Aly

    *pats* Thank you for sharing, i was set on having a se-less life but you made me reconsider because if my SO would feel that its vital for him(even if i think it not), that i should be open for a compromise and having that is inevitable in a relationship. Though i feel that id appreciate quiet platonic bonding times with my future SO more -- im just scared the man ill get would be so adamant on having it when i can live without it. .....urm...sorry for opening this topic. ^^;
    But i appreciate you for giving me time to answer my awkward question.

    Donghae Not the Sea November 26, 2019 12:54 pm

    in my case it's more like getting tired physically, like i wanna do it but i also wanna sleep but not getting tired of my s.o.

    Aly November 26, 2019 1:33 pm
    in my case it's more like getting tired physically, like i wanna do it but i also wanna sleep but not getting tired of my s.o. Donghae Not the Sea

    Yes, that's my case too. My mind, my instincts want to, but my body - no girl, you're gonna break

    Peach November 26, 2019 4:35 pm
    I see.. somehow i feel averse towards intimacy, so i often wonder when reading mangas like these.. if i were to be as receptive to touch, how will it go? Though.. mangas arent really a good reference to how yo... GoSpark

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