Overreaction

In my irritation I forgot to mention that I really loved this story. Super cute!

I agree with you, but when Ikumi apologized in public, and the server heard. I think that added fuel to the fire.

Sheesh, its your prerogative how you'd react to such a situation. But, don't expect everyone to react as you do, and shame them if they dont. He was uncomfortable, so let him vent. He might take a day, he might take a week, but so what? They eventually made up, their relationship is getting even better, so why you so mad?

That's a fair point. Maybe he was ready to forgive him then but then the seme ended up making things worse. I still think it's a little excessive, but his relationship is not mine so he can do what he sees fit

Mate you're allowed to have opinions on things. What if the uke beat up the seme and he ended up in the hospital? Am I allowed to be mad then? Or no again because he forgave him and all is fine? Who decides what level of mistreatment I'm allowed to be mad at? You? I dont think so.

You look at this from pretty one-sided perspective. He wasn't "being a dick", he has every right to be pissed off at a partner who kept insisting on something really uncomfortable for him, and openly express it. When a person says "no", the other person should back off immediately, or not be so persistant about it at the very least. Many people would react the same way Haru did. I would have reacted the same way as well; in fact, i was in a similar situation, was also pinned down against my will during that, and i really didn't appreciate being treated like that at all.

I would consider your situation far more severe. He was not pinned down, and could have stopped what was happening at any moment, like he did. He just didnt want to partake in that form of kinky sex because he was uncomfortable. That's totally justifiable. What's not, is freezing someone out without even being willing to talk to them about why they're mad. Again, they see each other every 4 months or so. He wasted precious time being angry at someone who didnt even mean to make him mad, and then didnt try to do anything to remedy the situation. I consider that to be a dick move. If you dont, fine. But I'm not looking at this one-sidedly im looking at all the information that was given in the story, weighed both sides, see that both sides were wrong, and decided to state what nobody else did, that I disagreed that him freezing the seme out was some "self empowerement" move. I think it was a shitty thing to do, and he should not have reacted in such a way.

Bro, the comments section is for people to state their opinions. If they're mad about the situation, let them be mad. They already explained how they felt very clearly in their comment. Why do you have to ask why they're mad about it?

idk, because they're curious? You did just say the comments section is for people to state their opinions

But he didn't though, he was simply non-responsive and that is completely fine. For relationships/ partnerships/ marriage, there isn't a fixed manual to them, each is unique and different. The most one can do is respect personal boundaries and have an open dialogue. And if the way the uke dealt with his anger irks you, that's fine, just say it does.....but you didnt need to add the labels by calling him a 'dick' or 'petty'.

If they were simply stating that they were mad at how the uke handled the situation, that's totally fair. I just don't agree to the labels the uke's being a 'dick' or 'petty'. Esp on mgg it's become quite popular to criticize characters for even the slightest misstep, they're only human and they all react differently, no need to get riled up.

Yeah see that's the bit you're not getting. "He was simply non-responsive and that is completely fine." ....according to YOU. I dont think that is completely fine. I think it is petty (also petty is a descriptor ) and if the word dick pisses you off so much, fine. I think he was "being terrible" or is that a label too? And like I said earlier, it's not your place to decide what is or isnt ok and then decide that its law. I said I was irked, I said why, and you come in to respond with "why you mad" and talk about shaming people (which I never did tf?) for having different opinions? You can love what he did all you want dog, but I dont, and I'm allowed to say it with whatever words/labels/descriptors that please me. That's what freedom if speech is, and im not hurting anyone by doing it so i think the question is, why are YOU mad?

they're... they're not human. They're fake. That's the whole point. They're a story character who's feelings I'll never hurt because they don't actually exist.
I now see by shaming you meant the character. And... I'm sorry I dont feel bad? Like they're not real so should I?

I see where you're coming from, and I agree with some points of your statement. Mangago comments are very, very aggressive. But we really can't help it, people will criticize what they want to. Like how you're criticizing with person for thinking that Harukiyo is a dick for acting the way he did. That's just what they think. They've stated that they love the story, what is the problem. Although using the word dick, is also kinda of an overreaction in my opinion. That's what they think.

I agree. He ruined their vacation because of his tantrum. Especially with how expensive trips are. Let your partner know you are angry. But to ruin a vacation like this? I would have just gone out on my own. People take things way too far. You can be upset without treatment your partner badly.