Can we all agree that Seju and Sumin were both "self-centered assholes" in their own way? During their early days together, Seju kept on limiting Sumin. There are instances where Sumin had to leave friendly meetups because Seju wants her to. It narrowed her world, she didn't from closer bonds with other people (same for Seju). Kinda full of pressure on Sumin's part too if she receives everything from Seju, felt like she also had to give her everything.
Also, it's hard to judge Sumin's grudge of several years during Seju's cheating incident. It all piled up, death of her parents, cheating Seju, and that fucked-up brother. Met some shitty women too. How could you easily put the blame on just her?
I truly thought that it was bittersweet though. Sumin dated a lot of people, but somehow, she kept on coming back to Seju. In some chapters, Seju got comfortable with their situation thinking that it was "love". Seju was late in realizing that it's not the proper way to love someone. They both clung to the remnants of their affection and found safety in this set-up without complaints, drawing a line instead of reconnecting with each other.
Although, I do understand the way Seju behaved. How will you learn to love someone if you didn't properly receive it yourself growing up? Sorry if this was too long, don't spread hate. Let's just all be happy for the healthy relationships they have right now (づ￣ ³￣)づ
Can we all agree that Seju and Sumin were both "self-centered assholes" in their own way? During their early days together, Seju kept on limiting Sumin. There are instances where Sumin had to leave friendly meetups because Seju wants her to. It narrowed her world, she didn't from closer bonds with other people (same for Seju). Kinda full of pressure on Sumin's part too if she receives everything from Seju, felt like she also had to give her everything.
Also, it's hard to judge Sumin's grudge of several years during Seju's cheating incident. It all piled up, death of her parents, cheating Seju, and that fucked-up brother. Met some shitty women too. How could you easily put the blame on just her?
I truly thought that it was bittersweet though. Sumin dated a lot of people, but somehow, she kept on coming back to Seju. In some chapters, Seju got comfortable with their situation thinking that it was "love". Seju was late in realizing that it's not the proper way to love someone. They both clung to the remnants of their affection and found safety in this set-up without complaints, drawing a line instead of reconnecting with each other.
Although, I do understand the way Seju behaved. How will you learn to love someone if you didn't properly receive it yourself growing up? Sorry if this was too long, don't spread hate. Let's just all be happy for the healthy relationships they have right now (づ￣ ³￣)づ