In fact I think the uke is honest and not hypocritical when he refuses to get intimate with someone while bearing initials of someone else. I like respect his values
Definitely not everyone has this mindset where I'm from, but it's still pervasive in modern-day culture unfortunately. I recently made some new friends who said they were ashamed of being virgins at 15 (!!!). It made me feel really uncomfortable so I couldn't tell them I still haven't even kissed anyone at 22 because I haven't met someone I like enough. I just hope someday we can have healthy sex-cultures around the world.
i know right, it's crazy tbh. I went to a highschool in tokyo and i never dated anyone, one day, my classmates told me to lose my vcard and i just like??? what??? the fuck??? gladly I didn't bc I'm not a type who went on a date to just fucking or do sexual things. And then last month i went to korea, where me and my husband have a trip and then my husband friend who is a korean asked me if my husband was my first partner and ofc i said yes and then they were so shocked. Like what the hell happened to this society
Why they get so suprised at someone being a virgin? Maybe it's cuz I'm not from western countries or korea but I seriously don't understand this mindset that everyone needs to lose their virgin card or else something is wrong with them.....some people cannot initiate physical intimacy before establishing a emotional connection..... that red haired guy sahyun says" lose your virginity at least so your future partner wouldn't misunderstood you " as if losing virginity and having sex is just like drinking coffee with someone off the streets.