i noticed smth (im not complaining just saying what i noticed) when the uke is the "girly"...

nooo i want switch scenes in every work. I love it when couples switch mid sex

I may be a weird one, but girly or not, I always want couples to switch because it doesn't make any sense to me that they don't XD

i dont think its weird at all? i mean theres people who dont like topping/bottoming bcs they personally dont feel pleasure but theres also people who likes switching it goes from personal preference

I don't say that some people don't like to just bottoming or topping, but for having a lot of gay guys around me, the fact this is the mains dynamic in BL stories is not realistic at all (and I also don't like it because a lot of times, it's for very mysogunistic and homophobic reasons that characters in BL for not doing it, BL is VERY heteronormative and it's a part that I don't like at all in BL and also GL ^^"). As for having so much anal sex, more and more couple (talking M/M here) don't do it or really not as often as we see it in BL (and yes, I know it's fiction, but nonetheless, a bit of realism when it comes to a story is ALWAYS a very good thing. I don't care when it's just porn. I was just talking about MY preferences :) I wasn't saying that somebody couldn't do what they want, it's not my life, you do you and it's very good like that!