I was so mad for like 3/4ths of this chapter

Mece February 6, 2020 12:57 pm

Why could she not just offer to support him? To babysit? Or to buy things the girls might need?

Happiness comes in many forms. As far as she knows he could find a woman who would be okay with a blended family. It isn't impossible.

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    Ƀuʼnñỳ Ńàḋ March 28, 2020 2:00 pm

    Its not impossible but as a girl myself, I dont think theres many that would accept it you know.
    Idk maybe its just me but as newlyweds I want our house to be just for the two of us.
    It would be fine after some time passes of course.

    Mece March 28, 2020 2:53 pm
    Its not impossible but as a girl myself, I dont think theres many that would accept it you know.Idk maybe its just me but as newlyweds I want our house to be just for the two of us.It would be fine after some t... Ƀuʼnñỳ Ńàḋ

    I think my age has something to do with it. I'm 34. If a man I'm dating has circumstances then he has circumstances. You can either roll with them or not. Yeah him taking care of kids already is a complication. But taking care of his younger siblings is 100% better than baby mama drama. And I could not be attracted to a guy any longer if I found out that he wasn't helping his family at all in a situation like this. It is not like the girls have a viable alternate. And even if they did it would be a good mark on his character if he at least visited his abandoned younger siblings.

    Ƀuʼnñỳ Ńàḋ March 28, 2020 4:01 pm

    Well yea maybe its got something to do with age and personality too. I get jealous easily so I probably wont like it
    But if we've been married for a few years and suddenly his fam wanna stay with us and aq are perfectly financially able, then sure I dont mind.