Yesssss

... March 8, 2020 12:52 am

First of all, YES IT'S BACK

Second of all, I appreciate that there was a distinction between being "untrustful" and being "insecure". Sometimes these two things blur and I feel like we all need to remember that they are different concepts. Minato trusts that Shizuma would never cheat. The issue is that Minato is insecure. He is insecure. We all are insecure. Trust is an emotion that is relational, meaning we trust in people. Insecurity is an emotion that is internal. Minato trusts Shizuma but not himself. That is the root of the issue which spreads to his fear of Shizuma leaving him. It's so much more complex than being scared of being cheated on or distrusting people and especially bisexual people. It is so much more complicated than not trusting.

Third of all, Shizuma does a great job in trying to establish trust. I do see that he can create tension in the relationship because he is a natural polite charmer. And I do see that he needs to step back to look at what he's doing (especially when it pertains to Yuka). Like, you don't like it when Minato teases your buddy but you don't think about changing your own behavior? No, boy. REFLECT ON YOURSELF. But I do like it that he is trying and does what he can. You are lucky, Minato.

AND FOURTH OF ALL, WE ALL COLLECTIVELY STILL HATE YUKA. Can you get a life, Yuka? I am a woman and I love women. We need to uplift other women but Yuka... I hate you and you make women look bad. Stop it.

Responses
    Dechu March 8, 2020 6:41 am

    Daym boo you really represent what I've been thinking about this!