now that you said it, it make's me wonder about lesbian dynamics. sorry for my ignorance, but I imagine the active/passive (seme/uke) role is still present?
Also, translating seme/uke as top/bottom is actually not quite correct since both terms also applies to martial art movement. Seme as in the active/attack and uke as in the receiver/subject to attack
the terms 'top and bottom' are also often used by wlw esp by lesbians but i guess you'd be more familiar to that if you were actually a part of the community. believe me, the statement above is not, in any sense, trying to project mlm roles to wlw relationships.
WOMEN PEG, in case none of yall know that. women fuck other women. and that's on period. #PeggingRights #TransRights
i'm being up trans bc i'm talking about wlw relationships and trans girls who fuck girls are lesbians.
"Sorry to be controversial, but lesbians don't get penetrated by a penis."
you're really saying this with your whole chest when trans girls exist?
so what you are trying to say is that lesbians can't be attracted to trans women? also, are you a lesbian?
thank you everyone for the thorough explanation!! let us stick to our version of sexuality, definition and labels without attacking others. I'm sorry if my questions/follow up spurred this debate but there's so many kinds of people in this world and we should never really generalize people
what the fuck this looks like a crash site anyway lesbians can be tops and bottoms and switches why is there even an argument about this
Jfc, I rarely comment, but okay you guys. I'm lesbian, lesbians can be tops and they can be topped, be it by a tongue, fingers, a strap-on, or a trans woman's dick, if a couple decides that that works for them. A trans woman is a woman, and a woman who loves her as a woman can still identify as lesbian, if she wants to. (And while we're on that, a gentle reminder to please not negate a trans woman's identity just because of the parts she was born with.)
Now stop fighting and just read your yaoi.
- Your local lesbian auntie
my comment wasn't even supposed to be taken seriously until you butt in and started a discourse because i said 'women top'. what the fuck i can't believe this is even happening on a bl discussion board, of all places. this is not even remotely controversial!
anyway your comment perpetuates that lesbians can't be in a relationship with a trans woman when they can. me saying that lesbians can be involved with a trans has everything to do with this discussion because you inserted the narrative that women can't be tops. when they can. when she pegs she can be a top or a switch. trans women can put her dick in a cis woman who identifies herself as a lesbian and can still be called a lesbian. a trans woman is a WOMAN no matter her biological parts and lesbians, who are exclusively attracted to women, can have sexual intercourse with them PERIOD. what the fuck. THIS IS NOT BI OR PAN ERASURE.
i think it's fucking stupid how you think you can talk over us, actual lesbians, on this topic, nevermind that this is pretty dumb. i hate it here
Omfg what even is this dumb thread, we are literally lesbian women telling you that lesbian tops is a thing and while penis hate is also a thing for some lesbians, it is not so for all or maybe even the majority of us. And have I found a trans woman attractive in my life? Of course I have, because I am attracted to femininity. Has it ever bothered me she might not have a vagina? Idk man, I never lost sleep over this, but I'll probably dig anything if my girlfriend enjoys it aasjsjjsjs
Istg, weird ass people erasing trans rights and lesbian dynamics in a BL site, it's fucking hypocrisy
tell me why minato looks like a lesbian who passes off as a top because of her vibes but is actually a pillow princess