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I think it comes from the different expectations for each gender. Since women are seen as caring and nurturing it is common to put them in these kind of roles, expecting them to "cure" the ML traumas and problems. And yes, I also have a problem with that.
Haaaa, I'm really tired of this one sided pity. Every manga has sad past of both male and female lead. But sadly in every second manga whenever female learns about male and his history she buries her own worries and pain and start pitying on male. Her problems and pain feels negligible in comparison to male's. Comeon it's okay to be a little bit selfish. How long are you gonna keep quite? You know you should also complain or atlest share a little pain of your to your partner......the way most of story hide or neglect pain of one side over another saddens me, it may be my stupid sense of justice but i just can't swallow it...