This discussion is bringing a little tear to my eye for all the good times I've had, sitti...

raindragon April 4, 2020 2:54 am

This discussion is bringing a little tear to my eye for all the good times I've had, sitting in a bar, drunk on my ass, and then leaving that bar with someone, fully knowing what I was doing and also knowing how hard I was consenting. and it was really hard! I don't know about the rest of you stiffs, but I can be drunk - very drunk - and know fully well what the hell I'm doing and who I'm doing it with.The next day I know what I did and who I did it with. Nothing comes as any big eye opener like "oh no. what have I done!"
It's not like that, and you guys sure are dumb. LOL Good times. LOL

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    Anonymous April 4, 2020 12:58 pm

    1. Doctor wasn't some stranger from the bar. He knew him beforehand and knew the older bro wouldn't sleep with him if he wasn't intoxicated.
    2. He got him drunk purposefully so he would take advantage of him.
    3. The guy was so drunk, he hardly could walk and didn't remember most of that night. He also passed out in the middle.
    Sorry but it's clear rape.

    Anonymous April 4, 2020 1:09 pm

    Also educate yourself how alcohol affects people's behaviour and logical thinking because I see you have some imaginary + subjective pov on that matter.

    hHmmMmm April 4, 2020 8:20 pm

    Well haahhh good for you that u still know what you do but has it ever cross your mind that not everybody is like you, numerous people, numerous people who you could've just asked but u really had to flaunt ur idiocy that much?? Oh I'm sorry I forgot that ur a degenerate pardon me

    April April 4, 2020 10:43 pm

    There has been a couple of times that I got very drunk and couldn't remember anything from the night before

    raindragon April 4, 2020 11:22 pm
    Well haahhh good for you that u still know what you do but has it ever cross your mind that not everybody is like you, numerous people, numerous people who you could've just asked but u really had to flaunt ur ... hHmmMmm

    no, sorry. I'm normal. most people are the same as me. If you have no experience with alcohol, why are you opening your mouth?

    raindragon April 4, 2020 11:32 pm
    1. Doctor wasn't some stranger from the bar. He knew him beforehand and knew the older bro wouldn't sleep with him if he wasn't intoxicated.2. He got him drunk purposefully so he would take advantage of him.3. ... @Anonymous

    First, I'm sick to death of that stupid-ass mistake: the word is PURPOSELY not purposefully.
    2. I'm sick of you people casually throwing "he doesn't remember" around like it's something that can happen just about any old time, like a couple of drinks can cause "he doesn't remember." Let me tell you something. You're being ridiculously casual about something very serious and dangerous called a blackout. You have to be extremely drunk to have a blackout. For a normal person that's like drinking all evening one drink after another with shots all along the way. It's like ten mixed drinks and ten shots minimum. It's an entire night of drinking hard. Doc and Dojun were not in that kind of situation.
    Stop trivializing. A person who has a blackout is usually someone who has a real problem with alcohol. SHUT UP with the "he didn't remember" because it's immature, childish, and you and the rest need to be corrected about it.
    Nobody gets someone drunk. Welcome to adulthood. You're responsible for how much you drink. these guys are in their thirties. You haven't a clue what you're talking about.

    raindragon April 4, 2020 11:35 pm
    Also educate yourself how alcohol affects people's behaviour and logical thinking because I see you have some imaginary + subjective pov on that matter. @Anonymous

    nope. I'm an adult, a very smart one who knows what's what. Stop being so disrespectful

    Anonymous April 4, 2020 11:42 pm
    First, I'm sick to death of that stupid-ass mistake: the word is PURPOSELY not purposefully.2. I'm sick of you people casually throwing "he doesn't remember" around like it's something that can happen just abou... raindragon

    Don't make me laugh. I'm 4th year medical student so believe me I know very well how alcohol affects human nervous system. Anyone who finished HS or middle school should have such knowledge.
    Educate yourself. People have different tolerance to alcohol. Omg I can't believe people like you exist and are aDuLt.
    I passed out myself after few shots. Seriously nc.

    Anonymous April 4, 2020 11:46 pm
    First, I'm sick to death of that stupid-ass mistake: the word is PURPOSELY not purposefully.2. I'm sick of you people casually throwing "he doesn't remember" around like it's something that can happen just abou... raindragon

    And your reading comprehension is as poor as your education because it was literally SHOWN that he remember few moments of that night.
    OMFG if you are 30 you can't be taken advantage of? You are embarrassing yourself.

    Anonymous April 4, 2020 11:47 pm
    And your reading comprehension is as poor as your education because it was literally SHOWN that he remember few moments of that night.OMFG if you are 30 you can't be taken advantage of? You are embarrassing you... @Anonymous

    Remembers*

    Anonymous April 4, 2020 11:49 pm
    First, I'm sick to death of that stupid-ass mistake: the word is PURPOSELY not purposefully.2. I'm sick of you people casually throwing "he doesn't remember" around like it's something that can happen just abou... raindragon

    And I'm not native.. sorry for some mistakes

    Alice April 4, 2020 11:56 pm
    First, I'm sick to death of that stupid-ass mistake: the word is PURPOSELY not purposefully.2. I'm sick of you people casually throwing "he doesn't remember" around like it's something that can happen just abou... raindragon

    And South Korean law
    Further, and most important for the South Korean context, consent cannot be given if the victim is intoxicated. And intoxication does not require an alcohol induced coma but includes an amount of drink equivalent to drunk driving. Physical resistance is not required to show a lack of consent.

    raindragon April 5, 2020 12:20 am
    Don't make me laugh. I'm 4th year medical student so believe me I know very well how alcohol affects human nervous system. Anyone who finished HS or middle school should have such knowledge.Educate yourself. Pe... @Anonymous

    come on. everyone's tolerance is different. I shouldn't have to make that disclaimer every single time I talk.
    You fell asleep (passed out) after having a few drinks. That's not anything like a blackout. Educate yourself and be glad you've never had one. Don't repeat the same bad information. Also, for chrissakes, I hope you learned from your mistake not to pass out and cause your friends inconvenience.

    raindragon April 5, 2020 12:21 am
    And South Korean lawFurther, and most important for the South Korean context, consent cannot be given if the victim is intoxicated. And intoxication does not require an alcohol induced coma but includes an amou... Alice

    lol what are you going to do about it, make a citizen's arrest?

    Anonymous April 5, 2020 12:30 am
    come on. everyone's tolerance is different. I shouldn't have to make that disclaimer every single time I talk. You fell asleep (passed out) after having a few drinks. That's not anything like a blackout. ... raindragon

    I had a block out. I didn't remember one thing of that night. Sorry to disappoint.
    Also what are we even talking about. It was literally SHOWN he doesn't remember.

    Anonymous April 5, 2020 12:31 am
    lol what are you going to do about it, make a citizen's arrest? raindragon

    And as someone said. By fuckin South Korean law: it was rape.

    raindragon April 5, 2020 6:49 pm
    I had a block out. I didn't remember one thing of that night. Sorry to disappoint. Also what are we even talking about. It was literally SHOWN he doesn't remember. @Anonymous

    man, you can't even spell it. -Your claim was that you "passed out." not the same as a black out.
    -A law is only valid if it can be enforced. That law can't be enforced. Use your brain, man.
    -Dowan said he didn't remember, then it was literally SHOWN that the doc caught him in his lie. You're supposed to get the subtext, especially when it's sexy.
    -So, what did you do in your blAck out? Did you end up getting your *** ******. Tell the tale, man. Give details.
    -Oh, by the way, child, have you done your homework?

    raindragon April 5, 2020 6:52 pm
    There has been a couple of times that I got very drunk and couldn't remember anything from the night before @April

    I'm sincere when I say this. Be extremely careful, please. I'm not trying to be condescending. Blackouts are dangerous, and if you have a lot of them, please talk to someone about it. AA has meetings all over the world in every town.

    raindragon April 5, 2020 7:00 pm

    *Dojun

    Anonymous April 5, 2020 7:06 pm
    man, you can't even spell it. -Your claim was that you "passed out." not the same as a black out.-A law is only valid if it can be enforced. That law can't be enforced. Use your brain, man.-Dowan said he did... raindragon

    As I said I'm not native so in the begining I though the blackout and passed out are synonymous . Also you can have blackout and passed out in the middle.
    OMFG you are stupid. It was shown he remember pieces. PIECES. It doesn't take genius to guess what happened when your ass is throbbing, you have hickeys, you woke up naked beside other naked human being. Also he remembered pieces of that night. So he was drunk af.
    Also how that law can't be enforced lmfao?