to me that's off-topic my point is they were equal she never served him and he never served her bc there's simply no reason to
a forced situation between them just gives off bad vibes to me
they clearly want each other so there's no need for any kind of force and this is a game for the purpose of entertainment, depending on the person various type of situations may occur that are uncalled for
oh wait i think you mean that serving another person will not undermine the equality between the two people involved but I highly doubt it under these forced circumstances and her unwillingness in the beginning
serving means prioritizing the other person's needs and wishes which to me can not happen in an equal relationship if there is nothing given in return which is still unnecessary ... just no serving would do... ?

just you know... makes people sigh...
can *she* please *win him* (if necessary) and not the other way around just bc she's a woman and bla bla bla bc like boi let her keep her f/cking pride...
and this whole dressing her up thing like she'll really care about that (i feel that that's the way it'll go) just bc she's female like idk,, i don't need that basic gender sh/t she's more than that and their bond is evident as it is like the development can happen the way it did in the past life with her being a respected knight and all