Stop with the slut shaming pls

I love mangas like this or saezuru, i can't see the "slutty" ukes yall brag about, but abused men who now cant even allow themselves to feel pleasure like a "normal" person, they want it rough cause thats the only type of sex they know. From some comments i presume some girls here have never been in any kind of abusive relationship or any relationship at all to blame the uke for what happened to him smh