Yes redhair ! You doing it right! Sort out what you want to be, focus on yourself for now. You made your intentions clear, now it’s pan‘s turn. Honestly I think it’s quite realistic and I do like that they have this distance right now. Both weren’t ready for a relationship. Red hair is not mature enough and was never in love and pan has been „single“ for a longer period of time, not to mention the obvious age gap they have. They are at different stages in their life and that’s why they have to somehow overcome those stages a bit. Pan has been very hurtful to red hair but it must be pretty frightening for him too and I guess now he has to realize whether or not he wants him as a boyfriend, whether or not they are ready to commit. It’s not about moving in, it’s about the fact that he doesn’t even know what qui studies. So they should first clear the basic levels before even thinking of getting together
Yes redhair ! You doing it right! Sort out what you want to be, focus on yourself for now. You made your intentions clear, now it’s pan‘s turn.
Honestly I think it’s quite realistic and I do like that they have this distance right now. Both weren’t ready for a relationship. Red hair is not mature enough and was never in love and pan has been „single“ for a longer period of time, not to mention the obvious age gap they have. They are at different stages in their life and that’s why they have to somehow overcome those stages a bit. Pan has been very hurtful to red hair but it must be pretty frightening for him too and I guess now he has to realize whether or not he wants him as a boyfriend, whether or not they are ready to commit. It’s not about moving in, it’s about the fact that he doesn’t even know what qui studies. So they should first clear the basic levels before even thinking of getting together