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we didnt say we hated him though ╮(￣▽￣)╭ and a tiny slap? bis please, and who tf said Chnawoo enjoys it you can clearly see in Chanwoo face he aint like the kiss thats why he backed away

He looked horrified by the slap. Md knows very well that chanwoo is an abuse victim.

Hi there. You seem confused about what bdsm is. If you’re interested in learning, I posted a topic about why this isn’t bdsm at all. Cheers!

Exactly and I hate the fact everyone is throwing around the word abuse like it's nothing as someone who is has been through serious abuse this is so triggering to me that people want to compare this to actually real abuse that's going on in the world. Like come on guys really???

I don't know if it's because I actually went through fucked up abuse in the past but this does not count as abuse to me period

Ps. Don't reply to this message just a late night rant

Ive been through it, and my logic is way different then yours, and people arent throwing it around were tryna make a logic out of it, you can literal go search it up yourself, and you know whats triggering the fact that youu've been through it and agree with shit that are saying sum like "haha he deserved it or im happy that he got hit" and say there not abuse> it doesnt have to be physical but it can be mental and emotional abuse

Yes I do understand how it feels like to be abused and not being able to do any about it I do understand how it feels to live in constant fear and to feel completely helpless, but however i cant really understand how he feels like because he agree to it. it was consensual, because from my point of view he agreed to it. Do you think if I was giving the option to choose whether or not I wanted to get the shit beat out of me for the dumbest reason I would have said yes? he had a safe word I didn't. So please don't compare my situation to this thank you

Sry I reposted this answer, because I was basically gonna say the same thing again

bra dont you understand that MD said its gonna be over ? Chanwoo didnt want that, e aint know the new sub was gonna kiss him, whyd u think he backed away, MD said if ur not gonna do it leave, which Chanwoo didnt wasnt but did it anyway even tho he was uncomfortable, and Chanwoo dont been through abusive shit to the point where he thinks BDSm is alright with doing that shit even if he didnt want too

Since I’ve referred you to my post before, I’ll assume you’re unwilling to learn and are Purposefully being an aggravator... in which case I’m going to call you out on being an abuse excuser.

If you really have been abused before, I’m sorry that happened but that doesn’t give you the right to claim that a violent act isn’t abuse because worse exists. Especially not to claim that this isn’t abuse bc “it’s bdsm”. Any sexual act without consent is abuse. Period.

there's a difference between keeping things professional in bdsm and evident emotional manipulation.. that slap was not to arouse Chanwoo, it was to hurt him. THAT is the difference. you say you like bdsm but you clearly do not know the fundamentals about it.

honestly the fact that you even believe this is so damn embarrassing holy shit please do not get into bdsm until you learn consent LMFAO

Since op hasn’t commented I’ll give them the benefit of the doubt, but others are clearly ignoring my post lol they’d never be accepted into our community bc we see abusers for what they are: trash.

Oooooh wait, are you saying you're in the bdsm community or ?

For real bruh

Yep! I’ve been a fan for a long time now, but I also study sex crimes in my major so I have a pretty decent grasp of the difference between consensual vs non consensual, and fiction vs reality

SO YOU KNOW UR SHIT WHILE OTHER PEOPLE ARE ASSUMING INSTEAD OF ACTUALLY DOING THERE RESEARCH I always say it’s good to share ur opinion but if ur not part of the community you have no right to tell people either there right or wrong, since they have there own opinion, you don’t know shit if ur not apart of the community

that what I been saying for a long time XD

wait wtffff that is SO cool?!??? I suddenly admire you so much now!! and the fact that you're studying sex crime is also sooo fucking cool. i'm not into bdsm whatsoever but I respect the community and it frustrates me when hollywood and mere mainstream media demonizes it. bdsm is literally the BIGGEST sex act that NEEDS consent and while everyone just believes its weird bc of the pain are so ignorant. would I try it personally? no, but that doesn't mean I would demonize someone else's tastes. it intrigues me and i'm educated enough about it. that's why I really was interested in the side story bc I thought it was suppose to demonstrate healthy sex with consent and communication and dispel the stigma about bdsm but it seems like its not doing that at all now so :""")))))) yipiee

Oh stop it you ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄

And yes I had the same expectations y’all. Off the top of my head, I can’t think of any unproblematic “bdsm” yaoi, and that really fuggin sucks. It’s such an interesting and complex topic, and I think it has a lot of potential to be a super sexy story!
But when it’s done like this... yikes.

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