wow awesome chapter why? it's made clear that there's no unecessary drama between the ma...

I am definitly not trying to come for you, I personally don't think it's understandable for her to be bothered by her boyfriends friendship with the FL. They are literally childhood friends, and not in a fleeting friendship way, they have stayed friends for that whole time. Her saying he isn't allowed to be concerned for her is like saying he's not allowed to have concern for his own sister lol.

well taking everything into consideration such as the matter of the BF not getting in contact with the GF the whole time and just suddenly appeared into the scene when the FL is mentioned can be alarming for an average girl

i think its a natural human reaction for a girlfriend to be jealous or bothered in that matter and i think the gf handled it well by being honest with her feelings to her bf rather than keeping it inside

moreover, its not like she bitched about it with the FL, so i dont understand the hate for her by the other readers

My issue stems from the fact that she goes as far as to make him feel as though he’s not allowed to be concerned or support his friend of 20+ years. He know the FL way before knew before his girlfriend. She makes him feel as though he has to dial back a friendship he has had most of his life. Especially after his girlfriend brought him into the situation by telling him their friends business. She has the audacity to spill all the tea, and then get mad when he is concerned for someone who is like a sister to him. On top of that she may not take up her boyfriends actions with the FL, but she is obviously conscious of the FL’s family relationship, and after her boyfriend saying “she is like family” should understand that in a way, he is probably one of the closest relationships she has. mi-ran obviously knows the FL and her boyfriends friendship is close if she felt comfortable telling him about the FL’s pregnancy. So why try and strip the FL of one of her closest friendships during a time where that is what she needs the most?

yes i get ur point that they go way way back but the red haired's reaction is pretty chill, it's just like when a girl gets pouty faced with his man

and back to my main comment on why i think the chapter's awesome: she listened to her man about their relationship

and no, i dont think we can compare childhood friends with "sisters/brothers" tbh

take into consideration that the FL liked the ML for a long time soooo

but i understand ur sentiments and i respect that :)

this is just me coming from my own experiences with friendships and relationships lol

and its absurd to say that she stripped the FL with her closest friendship etc. she's literally the one who called that closest friendship

and her reaction's just like of a normal jealous girlfriend and its far from toxic

plus she's obviously less aware of the FL's family matters as the BF needs to explain it to detail to her

and i dont think shes saying that she doesnt want the guy to be concerned for the FL but instead make her the priority instead of the FL

i like how the BF is willing to adjust his mannerisms of protecting the FL for the peace of mind of his girlfriend

Also coming from my experiences, the point that I was trying to make is that even though Mi-ran calls the FL her 'bestfriend' to me she seems likens fake friend, and is making unreasonable requests from the boyfriend. I don't think she did listen to her boyfriend because even after explaining their relationship she still pouted, he was not making the FL the priority in his life, but a priority for the day because of her situation.

I personally think she could be more understanding, especially when she considers the FL her 'friend.' I think it's weird that she feels that she should be able to show a higher level of concern for their friend then he does, just because he is a straight guy. Especially since she is the one who pulled him into the situation. 'hey our friend got knocked up, she doesn't actually know the father and will probably be raising it alone, but like why are you showing more concern for her then your girlfriend?' was seemingly her reaction. The answer to that would be, because the situation is not about the girlfriend. To me she does not seem like a true friend to the FL.

I don't think its absurd to say she is attempting to stripping the FL of her closest relationship. She is most definitely attempting to create space in that relationship. The boyfriend literally sat there and thought about the FL's situation for two seconds and to her he was doing too much and she threw a mini tantrum over it. She basically was like can you not be as close to her because it makes me jealous. Like sis, consider the situation for two seconds and get over it.

there is a difference between not trusting your significant other for a good reason, and in that case you probably just shouldn't be with them if they have broken your trust, and being insecure for no reason, especially when the other person has not given you a reason and attempted to reassure you. She is the second of these circumstances.