He's being so unfair. While I think she should be able to marry whenever at her age she wants to get married now. If she falls for him and for her endgame is marriage and if he doesn't want to then that relationship is doomed. Like I know usually when you date someone there is no guarantee of marriage but for him there is a huge possibility he won't want to marry. She could fall for him and he'll just want to have fun. She wants someone serious about her. Someone who if they begin to date knows they will get married somewhere down the line when they're ready. Ugh idk it's just all so wrong! If she went in with same idea like she doesn't know if she wants to marry him to it would be different but they both want two different things which is just a recipe for someone to get hurt>:( of course she is an adult so I suppose she should be aware of the problems but she seems pretty vulnerable and he's sort of taking advantage of that
He's being so unfair. While I think she should be able to marry whenever at her age she wants to get married now. If she falls for him and for her endgame is marriage and if he doesn't want to then that relationship is doomed. Like I know usually when you date someone there is no guarantee of marriage but for him there is a huge possibility he won't want to marry. She could fall for him and he'll just want to have fun. She wants someone serious about her. Someone who if they begin to date knows they will get married somewhere down the line when they're ready. Ugh idk it's just all so wrong! If she went in with same idea like she doesn't know if she wants to marry him to it would be different but they both want two different things which is just a recipe for someone to get hurt>:( of course she is an adult so I suppose she should be aware of the problems but she seems pretty vulnerable and he's sort of taking advantage of that