It truly is toxic behavior! Like Youngmin was manipulating Yuhyeon to stay with him by trying to take his own life! If somebody doesn’t want to be with you, then let them go and don’t be going around with threatening to take your life! Youngmin needs to stay in that mental hospital!
trust me it happens in real life.. i know someone who went throught this and even worse and you have no idea how messed up his is rn
I know many people that have been in toxic relationships as well and their mental health took such a ginormous plunge I grew to hate their significant others because they ruined my friends. My friends wouldn’t take my advice of breaking up with them! I thought it was easy to break up, but I took a health class and found out that they couldn’t leave because they were constantly being brought down and threatened. So, I would go to the counselors and tell them that my friends needed help. Then, the counselors would talk to the families of the s/o and have them expelled. Although, sometimes even if I did do that my friends would go back either way like one too many times. So my mental health also took a plunge. Then, I broke it off with those friends that went back and never took my and the counselors advice seriously.
It’s good to be there for people, but when it starts to affect you as well, and those people aren’t changing, DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR BREAKING OFF YOUR FRIENDSHIP!!! Two people that are not in the right head space cannot console each other! TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST!! BEFORE YOU CAN TAKE CARE OF SOMEONE ELSE!
Very true. I agree. If what your friend is doing starts to affect you in any negative way, there’s no guilt or shame in breaking it off. It’s not worth destroying your mental health over.
exactly they never listen T-T like i tried so hard to tell my friend to stay away from this girl cuz she's crazy she forced the relationship by accusing him of rape and violent abuse
she tried to s*cide a millions of time so he could accept her confession but she always makes her self look like a victim.. she sends him videos of herself c*ting and drinking pills while apologizing so if he decided to tell others she can tell everyone that he was forcing to do that. she even tried to jump from the 5th floor in front of him so they could back together... it was messed up it affected me as well but i couldn't leave him alone in that mess it was more like "if we go down we go down together"
and now he lost everything he's traumatized he doesn't go to school anymore and the girl she's dating a rich man
i know and i agree but i can't.. it's like there is no way out and even if i leave everything will hunt me forever
I’ve been there as well, where I would start blaming myself for having thoughts on leaving my friend that was in a toxic relationship and couldn’t get out. But I started becoming suicidal as well with not being able to help my friend get out of that place. It started affecting my family because I wasn’t myself anymore. And after a year of my mental health deteriorating, I started to listen to music that told me that’s I wasn’t alone and that life is hard for everyone, but there is always a way out!
With those songs, I gathered courage to completely cut off all my friends that were still in those toxic relationships. I made new friends that weren’t in toxic relationships, and I was returning to be myself!
Of course though, I would still think about if I really did everything I could. And, I truly did do everything that was in my power to help them! It’s just that they didn’t want to take my hand.
So yes, it will still haunt you at the beginning, but after a few months you’ll feel relieved like the world was lifted off your shoulders! It’s the best feeling in the world! You will starts to see the world in brighter colors, even though you probably haven’t noticed it yet but you will when you feel happier!
If it starts to affect you negatively, it’s best to take a step back. If you can’t cut off your relationship with that person completely, just take a step back and take a break.
Ugh. I agree with the uploader. Fucking Minho keeps pissing me off. He has absolutely NO right to interfere and get in the way. Youngmin and Yuhyeon both need to meet and talk it out. Yuhyeon is feeling guilty for no reason. I can’t believe Youngmin would threaten with suicide. That’s toxic AF.