And MC forgave him that easy? He even doesn't know what those two was doing together. I me...

Bella August 5, 2020 3:02 pm

And MC forgave him that easy? He even doesn't know what those two was doing together. I mean, we know there is nothing between them. But not MC

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    bluefox August 5, 2020 4:02 pm

    Isn't it nice though, that for once we have a guy that trusts his partner enough not to directly think he's cheating on him, simply because he is in the presence of another dude. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    Deee August 5, 2020 4:27 pm

    And that’s on having trust in your partner.

    Bella August 5, 2020 4:27 pm
    Isn't it nice though, that for once we have a guy that trusts his partner enough not to directly think he's cheating on him, simply because he is in the presence of another dude. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ bluefox

    Well, from some point it s right. But i don't think u would be ok with it, if ur bf came drank with another girl

    Deee August 5, 2020 4:32 pm
    And that’s on having trust in your partner. Deee

    Not having* lol my b

    xielian_inlove August 5, 2020 4:56 pm

    i would have let it go too, not like the dude was cheating. he was literally only half an hour late.

    Kissstine August 5, 2020 5:07 pm
    i would have let it go too, not like the dude was cheating. he was literally only half an hour late. xielian_inlove

    No offense but I think, the point is that the seme could have advised the uke that he'll be late knowing that they have some arrangements. A little text or call would have done it, or maybe since he knew that he will be drinking with a client then he could have texted or called his bf before his phone's battery run out. Half an hour for me is totally late.

    Bella August 5, 2020 5:18 pm
    No offense but I think, the point is that the seme could have advised the uke that he'll be late knowing that they have some arrangements. A little text or call would have done it, or maybe since he knew that h... Kissstine

    Totally agree. And it could be better, if he came, even drank, but alone.

    xielian_inlove August 5, 2020 6:26 pm
    No offense but I think, the point is that the seme could have advised the uke that he'll be late knowing that they have some arrangements. A little text or call would have done it, or maybe since he knew that h... Kissstine

    dude was so wrapped up in work he didn't think of the details till later. his phone died, and he was so exhausted he feel asleep on his way to the hotel. like i mean if you want to be angry for no legit reason, go ahead but imo what a waste of energy.
    his reason for being late to me was solid. can't help it bc it's business. the character agrees with me too. he was angry at not being paid attention to for the past weeks than what happened that particular evening (him being late 30min, which he was annoyed but not fuming).
    i think a few of you are actually prone-to-be-intensely jealous people and I'd encourage yall to keep that in check when it comes to relationships. a bit of flexibility is needed in a good partnership.

    Kissstine August 6, 2020 4:37 am
    dude was so wrapped up in work he didn't think of the details till later. his phone died, and he was so exhausted he feel asleep on his way to the hotel. like i mean if you want to be angry for no legit reason... xielian_inlove

    Don't get me wrong, I really like the fact that the uke didn't drag it too much. The thing is I only sympathized with the fact that some people thinks bad at what the seme did. Tbh, I also don't like too much drama in a relationship, I'm totally not that type of person. However, not all people thinks alike. We have our own opinion in some actions, so I was just trying to clear some points. Plus, I think when you're in a relationship you should do some effort because it's a commitment (no matter how busy you are). The only good thing about the seme is that he acknowledge his mistake the uke forgave him. Just don't dismissed the fact that he also did wrong.

    Bella August 6, 2020 8:18 am
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    No problem))

    xielian_inlove August 6, 2020 12:55 pm
    Don't get me wrong, I really like the fact that the uke didn't drag it too much. The thing is I only sympathized with the fact that some people thinks bad at what the seme did. Tbh, I also don't like too much d... Kissstine

    He didn’t do anything wrong other than be a little late. Seriously, read what I wrote again after you calm yourself down. Both of the main characters make serious effort in being together - the whole reason the blonde guy is working so hard is so his partner’s family can accept him.
    Jealousy is horrible and helps NO ONE. Stop being so inflexible if you want to be happy in a relationship.

    Kissstine August 6, 2020 2:22 pm
    He didn’t do anything wrong other than be a little late. Seriously, read what I wrote again after you calm yourself down. Both of the main characters make serious effort in being together - the whole reason t... xielian_inlove

    Alright, if that's how you see it then I will not say that you're wrong. There are other people who see it in a diff way so, I guess we just need to respect that (I don't see it as being inflexible). I'm not gonna say any more than this.

    Bella August 6, 2020 2:48 pm

    Guys, jealousy is indeed not good. But that s also means u afraid to lose ur partner. And if u re not jealous, ur partner ll think he/she is nothing to u. So jealousy in relationships is important. Am I wrong?

    bluefox August 7, 2020 8:38 am
    Guys, jealousy is indeed not good. But that s also means u afraid to lose ur partner. And if u re not jealous, ur partner ll think he/she is nothing to u. So jealousy in relationships is important. Am I wrong? Bella

    Yes I believe you're wrong, because a partner is not something to possess and be jealous about, it is someone to love and communicate with. If you have an issue with them just talk to them, no need to act all jealous 'cause it will just show how immature and uncertain you are about this relationship and your partner. Everything is about trust and communication and if anyone makes you feel like jealousy is a good thing, it probably means that they need to feel wanted and validated because they lack self-confidence which is something they should work on. Being possessive usually doesn't lead to anything good;)

    Bella August 7, 2020 12:08 pm
    Yes I believe you're wrong, because a partner is not something to possess and be jealous about, it is someone to love and communicate with. If you have an issue with them just talk to them, no need to act all j... bluefox

    Well, possession and jealousy are different concepts for me.

    bluefox August 7, 2020 9:40 pm
    Well, possession and jealousy are different concepts for me. Bella

    Yes I agree they are two different notions since you can be jealous of someone without being possessive over them.Though, in relationships they are often entangled, since you're jealous of the people in your lover's life. And I'm not saying someone isn't allowed to feel jealous, suspicious or even just scared and unsure. I'm just saying, I'm glad the MC didn't start accusing his partner of something simply because someone drove him there. At no point did his lover try to hide that fact, or try to hide their relationship from the man who drove him. Since he didn't act in any suspicious way, there's no actual reason to get angry or jealous. If he did get mad,(about the guy driving him I mean) it wouldn't have his lover's fault, but because of his own fears, trust-issues or possessiveness. So I'm just glad he didn't draw any radical conclusion from a simple drive.