Are we like victim blaming lol?
I'm calling as I see it Nakyum is no longer a victim he even said to himself he likes Seungho so its not victim blaming. He needs to stop being hang on to what everyone says about him. If someone calls me a whore I'm not going to sit there and say " YOU KNOW WHAT.. I am a whore". But like I said yall feeling get hurt when people say the truth about Nakyum and yes baby the truth hurts. I love Nakyum just as much as Seungho but I'm not so in love with to point where if and when he does something toxic im not going to call it out.
glad there are people out here finally stating facts (and ffs don't come at us we're also audience and have the right to comment what we want or think, just don't start squaring up)
It’s the power imbalance and abuse for me
Yeah and it's ridiculous, wtf do they expect from poor Nakyum? He was raped and mind broken and was simply forced to this condition, he doesn't freaken deserve this, and now that he gave up and gave in like a broken accessory he's not good enough for Mr King? Well bitch, you forcefully made him yours, you'll get what you give.
preACH.
who are you talking to ?
agreeing with you and disagreeing with people squaring up against us
No, that's not what he truly wants, accepting the situation you're in and actually wanting it is different. He simply gave up, and became what everyone is expecting him to be. He is a victim, he feels dirty and since so many call him a whore, he actually started to believe it. Many people act this way due to trauma, it's not something 'easy' to just 'stop'.He is not to blame in any way, the only people to blame are the bastards that brought him to this state, Seungho that raped him, Inhun that degraded and used him even that piece of trash servant that is jealous of him.
I understand that aspect but to be honest the tides have shifted Nakyum likes the sex with Seungho he admitted to himself in a round about way. And I mean in that era Nakyum is a low born so he was getting treated as such up until a certain point. I feel like once they actually talk about how they feel about each there won't be a power imbalance. I feel like the author has drug out this scenario for far to long !
sorry about this comment when people don't tag me I get a little confused!
if we're on the same side it don't matter lol
Sorry but I have to disagree with you he admitted to like Seungho that was not giving up like I said yall want him to stay a victim so bad its sickening. It's weird that people aren't comprehending this. As long as someone doesn't say anything mean or do anything to Nakyum its fine. He let's people effect his train of thought way to much for my liking that is why I call him timid. Ths servant isn't even on Nakyum level but he keeps letting him get away with saying shit. I understand many people act a certain way due to trauma but not all action are induced by trauma. That is like how people make excuses for mass murders but anyway whatever helps you sleep at night. I call it how it is he goaded Seungho into responding the way he did. Seungho been wanted Nakyum to see Inhun for what he was but blatantly ignored it just like he blatantly ignores the changes Seungho is trying to make. A victim can't always use trauma as an excuse !
Uhh Idk about the extent of being hurt, I just thought it was a point I really disagreed with.
But I’m not gonna be one of those annoying threads going back n forth. I’ll keep it moving and respectfully disagree.
When did I say I want him to be a victim?
This my opinion, and yes trauma can be clearly the reason of thinking of yourself badly (being a murderer due to trauma is a completely different condition and completely nonsensical you even mentioned it). Clearly you've never been a victim of rape so how could you possibly understand? How about I sent you an article on how possible his behavior Is after getting raped and blamed for it as a whore? He is thinking lowly of himself that's why he is letting this servant get away with it, he doesn't consider him as someone lower than him, because like I said countless times RAPE and MISTREATMENT can lead you into thinking of yourself as someone not deserving of actual love. He chose to stay because this trauma makes him consider himself as a whore and since he had nowhere else to go with no purpose (since Inhun rejected him), he chose to stay and act like the whore he thinks he is.
Not to mention how many times Seungho has taken out his damn sword and has threatened to slice people in frond of Nakyum, so he is probably also afraid he'll kill anyone for nothing if he blames them. How about instead of assuming stuff, you actually do your research about how rape and mistreatment is affecting the mind of a victim?
Sorry sweet but have been raped once molested by three different guys two were family members. Not every victim of rape or molestation stayed victims and want to be as victims. Yall be so fucking quick to get personal to that I say fuck you and the high horse you clearly are riding on. And like I yalll meaning more than one person wants him to wallow in victimhood and you clearly must haven't been reading the same manhwa. And hd didn't have to stay that is the crazy thing as many times as Seungho has let him out without him lol he could have left. To be honest I feel he leave at anytime even if its him running away at night. But than again why would he leave a man he likes
I've also been raped, it took me 5 damn years to recover. Like you said 'not all' victims, which means some do act that way, including me. That's why I found what you said beyond insulting. You can't just 'act' differently after being forced into that mindset.
Also I clearly stated(unless you just passed it without reading), that he stayed because he felt like he had no purpose and thought of himself as a whore. I respect and understand that you haven't been pushed into thinking of yourself that way, but just because it hasn't been that way for you don't assume that it was the same for others.
BYE SAM
yall feelings are getting to hurt in this chapter Nakyum was in the wrong I said what I said and I meant yall just want a reason to demonize Seungho. Had Nakyum not responded in that way Seungho wouldn't have felt the way he did which is he thinks Nakyum and Inhun are cahoots. Yall can't be mad at the people in the comments telling the truth. Nakyum needs to stop his behavior just like Seungho.