
"My dad just threatened me seriously to kick me out of the house because I accidentally talked back sarcastically to my mother and told me I was just a child leeching off them. I didnt mean it but like I was really stressed from online classes and shit ton of work and them forcing me to do all the fucking household chores and motherfucking cook for them even when I told them I dont have free time. I know it wasnt an excuse to put my stress on her."
You seem like a very hard working person. Anyone else would have just left (from asian family as well). If you are working AND studying AND doing house chores, I'd say THEY are the ones using YOU.
I don't know your age, but I will assume you are still not a complete adult per say. Perhaps even a teenager as of yet.
This is abuse. They are treating you like a slave and that is NOT fine.
I know in asian families this is normal, mostly depending on the country you are from, but you are NOT a piece of shit and you shouldn't feel bad about the way you answered them.
You are working hard, studying and working. Who does that? Only people wishing for a better life. If your parents don't want to help you on that, that's on them.
Life gives back what you have once given to others. And forgive me for saying this, but it doesn't seem your parents deserve a lot.
If you can, move out; If you can't, talk it out; If it doesn't work either, just don't do it. Don't do the house chores. Don't listen to them.
A parents "job" is to motivate and support their child. And they aren't doing it.
So why should you do your part as their child?
Be a bit more selfish, darling. You have a long life ahead of you, so don't let the way your parents treat you affect your mind. For, even if it sounds stupid, it is something that can affect your work life too.
Get the best out of it in any way you can.

dont blame yourself for not reaching unrealistic expectations from your parents. youre only going to end up in place that they set you up for. know that you have much greater strength against the toxic and manipulative words that are being thrown at you. if your parents don't want to understand your feelings then it isn't worth letting them destroy your self worth. even if you lost some or all of them theres always time to rebuild your value in life. that fact that you're still breathing, i respect you for that.

Its it's my parents are a little similar just not as harsh. It's not your fault at all and it's something your father needs to work on. I don't know your father or his story so maybe he was having a bad day or was just looking out for your mother in quite a stupid way no offence to your father. And just know if he really said you're just a child leeching onto them he's wrong if you're quite literally a child you're his full responsibly and it's like impossible for you to "leech" when youre a child my age but maybe he said child as in your behaviour to him send childish which it wasn't really if anything your father sounds like a child who is a bully but I hope you feel better. Trust me you're loved because I love you

That's called having asian parents, i can relate to some parts. My mom sometimes calls me useless but I know she loves me. Sometimes words are not meant, maybe both of you are having a bad day. Don't believe their words when you seemed to be a hardworking person based on what you said. It hurts. It's fine to cry and feel bad. If they do not notice how stressed you are being, it's fine to feel upset even though talking back is not entirely good.

Don't worry, everything's normal but you have to be sorry. You still hurt them.
Anyway, It's the cycle of life... You will understand them once you have your own family.
My (solo-parent) mother once told me when I got a child of my own, I am already repaying her by raising my child. She wasn't expecting me to provide for her. She wants me to live for my own family's future.
I believe they are just training you because life will never be easy.
My dad just threatened me seriously to kick me out of the house because I accidentally talked back sarcastically to my mother and told me I was just a child leeching off them. I didnt mean it but like I was really stressed from online classes and shit ton of work and them forcing me to do all the fucking household chores and motherfucking cook for them even when I told them I dont have free time. I know it wasnt an excuse to put my stress on her.
Now im thinking how much of a burden I am and an ungrateful piece of shit. Wishing something shitty would happen to me and kill me instantly. I know its not much considering I should get used to it because Im from an Asian family but my mother always tell me im useless and blaming me for having a messy house then tells me to motherfucking have dinner after lashing out to me a lot. always the same bullshit.
I dont have anywhere to tell this because my friends wont take me seriously and I dont want to bother them.
Anyways thank you for reading this I just wanted to let it out :)))