Bc a lot of girls in real life are like that
Sounds more like all the men are sexists irl.
But mostly women write bl so wdk
And let us not assume please, irl anyone can be sexist not just men. This kind of thinking is detrimental to any form of progress in society
Yesssss also this woman is tame compared to other women in bl so idk why she's a b (￣∇￣")
I am a woman?? And majority of bl stories Are written by women??
they're not tho, and if all women you know are like that you should change the people you're hanging out with.
I am not really talking about the bl though
Gender doesn't matter. And I am not talking about bl . The statement you made generalising all the women is very wrong my friend lol. Irl most of the time homosexuality is better accepted by women than men. And I have female friends from different corners of the world who have helped their gay friends a multiple times. I am not trying to act like a righteous feminists (cause I am a egalitarian) but generalising a particular community which such statement is wrong. It's like saying all men are rapists when we clearly know men can be victims as well. Anyways I am not trying to insult you or hurt you in any possible way, I just wanted to share my opinion on what you just said.
I definitely don’t hang out with women like that, or people like that in general. And they are. Just like Theres so many That Are Not. There are so many that are just like that. Same thing for men. Gender doesn’t have anything to do with being a manipulative person or selfish or extremely flirtatious or the type of person that has no respect for other people’s relationships or boundaries. I’m sure you’ve seen it in real life in people all the time.
First, I really don’t care about your opinion just like you don’t care about my opinion. We’re all just strangers on the internet trying to say something, not to mention I’m well aware of what you’ve said. Not to mention I’m not sure where you pulled the “all women” from since I said “a lot of girls,” thus connotating usually younger aged, immature females are the ones acting this way because they don’t know better AND “a lot” certainly does not mean “all.” Besides, there are women that act like that too. Just like Theres so many That Are Not. There are so many that are just like that. Same thing for men. Gender doesn’t have anything to do with being a manipulative person or selfish or extremely flirtatious or the type of person that has no respect for other people’s relationships or boundaries, and I never said it did. Anon literally just asked “why are girls in bl like this” and I answered, since I’ve seen plenty of people in real life act in such ways. Whether it was at the jobs I’ve worked, the schools I’ve attended, or known figures in media. I’m sure you’ve seen it in real life in people all the time. No need to get all righteous trying to educate someone meanwhile we’re both on this website reading the same kind of thing :/ neither of us are here for it
Internet provides you a platform where you can accept and form constructive criticisms. When they asked why girls in Bl act like that is because antagonizing a female character have become such a mainstream plot in BL world which is completely not true at all. And when you are specifically mentioning that "MOST OF THE GIRLS ARE LIKE THAT IRL.", you are trying so portray that more 50% of the women are like that. You could have easily gone with something like "yes there are women like that irl". A little change in a statement can make a lot of difference. And similarly it is very wrong from your part that you are tar getting your statement to younger girls which is something so stereotypical of you. As an adult I have a lot more accepting and empathetic younger lass then some fully grown women. Thinking that maturity comes with age is sounds really hypocritical cause you are using your same I am an adult card to attack minors. And yes women can be like that too. Age doesn't have any role in it. As I have said before I don't want to act righteous but I can't ignore a statement that clearly is in the wrong. And try to accept your responsibility rather than getting all defensive. All I am saying that whether you use most/all/majority or whatever sounds good in your statement, try to analyze it before you target someone with those terms. Because we are using the same platform reading the same story, that I have to curb the wrong message you are sending to the other readers as well. With this I am ending my shit cause idk if you get what I meant but this just put me at ease that I didn't keep quiet.
Why are girls in bl like this? ╥﹏╥