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Ive never seen a statement more wrong. Did u forget how yahwi took advantage of him in the hotel, and then proceeded to blame jooin when confronted? I don’t know how u see jooin as a hoe when the first person he has every done those things with is yahwi. If thats just yahwi’s personality then hes a shit human being.
Oh you thought that I didn't take their first sexual encounter into consideration? Well I was focusing on that but all the events that came after that. That first encounter is now null and void. After Jooin became aware of the situation yes he was upset (which anyone would be) & yes they did stopped communicating with one another but the first thing Jooin does is greet Yahwi & try to get back into his good graces.
Jooin wanted to have sex just as much as Yahwi which is why he continued to have sex with Yahwi after the fact. Jooin is no longer innocent & it can no longer be victik blaming since he is allowing it to happen & enabling Yahwi bad behavior. Which is why they're both in the wrong.
Jooin wanted to have sex because it was the ONLY connection yahwi allowed. If not for the hook ups, yahwi wouldn’t have given him the time of day. Jooin let yahwi know he liked him and as you can see it did exactly what jooin thought would happen to them. Jooin got ignored by yahwi and yahwi only reconnected when there was another person who jooin enjoyed being around cain which made yahwi’s possessiveness show. If how yahwi reacted isnt victim blaming idk what is.
I dont see how you thought the only connection Yahwi allowed when from the very beginning they were hanging out on a regular basis. Also they were flirting since the very beginning & Jooin did start it & Yahwi went along with it. He even stated from the beginning that he didn't like clingy people but he liked being around Jooin.
Also now that I've gone back & reread the chapters leading to the very first sexual encounter Yahwi did not rape him. Even though Jooin stated that it might be a dream Yahwi clearly thought that he was fully awake & they continued flirting with each other. (Dont forget Yahwi was drinking too & alcohol played a BIG portion in the encounter). Afterwards when Yahwi left some money behind he clearly stated that Jooin should use the money for food & a taxi to get home. So he thought it was a regular sexual encounter (one night stand or whatever).
Jooin only got ignored by Yahwi because he threw all of Yahwi money in his face & left on his own & didn't want to be involved with him. Yahwi left him alone & respected his boundaries. But with the Cain situation I agree that it was jealousy which is low key possessive & Jooin liked it. Jooin is a grown ass man & can make his own decisions. They both played a part in their complicated relationship but Yahwi shouldn't take all the blame. So their is no victim blaming.
I understand the frustration with Yahwi but that is his personality. He's low key a jerk to everyone. Jooin is no longer a sweet baby of innocence. If you can't see that Jooin is a hoe then you're not paying attention. Yahwi been the same since the beginning & Jooin low key likes it which is why he keeps having sex with him. He can say no but he chooses not too. They are clearly both toxic.
Now I know Cain comes across as a sweet person but we don't know him or what he's all about. For all we know it could just be a facade. All we can do is wait & see. Prove me wrong