not true but do you boo
I think age gap relationships work. This one however wouldn’t in any way. Maturity is the most important element to a age difference relationship. Given they are completely at two different points in their lives, experiences, and expectations this will completely influence their compatibility. You have Uncle Pan who indulges in living carefree and frivolous when in a relationship due to years of experience as a jaded romantic. And Redhead who’s inexperience makes him impulsive, rash, and just as fickle. Those types of personalities don’t mesh naturally to have a relationship, especially when you add two years away from each other. It would take years on redhead’s part and teaching an old dog new tricks on Uncle pan’s part to change such habits and life outlooks. Not to mention redhead deserves better, not this hang up on a man who never respected him to being because of his age. People just think age gaps is just a number. It’s really not as simple as that. It completely depends on each person and couple, but they all have in common a shared outlook. Otherwise age really can impact how the relationship is defined and create a clear imbalance, where they are not equal to one another.
I know people will like this couple anyway but they are not at all a healthy representation of a age gap relationship. And BL tends to do an awful job in general in presenting this type of relationship in general.
Have you been reading this manga if you have then this stands null and void boo
Or maybe you should re-read it to get a better grasp of what transpired between them
And you should realize this is a fictional story that’s an omnipotent author took liberties to make the situation work in their favor . Not a realistic approach by any means. But enjoy your fantasy boo.
If there are does are interested in an.actual well written BL age gap plot by Chinese authors that seriously takes on how an difference would impact a relationship look at Thirty Years Old and Ji Ye and Guan Shan.
Age difference*^
Yet here you are writing an epistle and clutching your pearls that no one requires for a “fictional story”
Oh sorry I explained why their dynamic is unhealthy didn’t mean to ruin your delicate sensibilities. You can enjoy fictional characters and elements of story without policing others interpretations and experiences. If you choose to ignore by disliking and carrying why should I care? It’s you who choose to engage in bothering to tell me otherwise my opinion was “wrong”. Learn to take you’re own advice “boo”.
more epistles and pearl clutching
I adore the other two couples. I literally could care less about uncle pan and redhead. Their relationship would never work in real life.