Please be friends then girlfriend and be the empress

i kind of want her to be head because if she becomes empress the prince şs really cute byt theres lots of other man out there and i dont think it would be good to make the imperal fanşly that powerfull i wouldnt tryst the rıyalty even if the parents are good there needs to be some power balance and their child would hold too much power which, imo would really suck