Why the hell are they acting like she's some felon? Capture her at the border? Really? She...

Why the hell are they acting like she's some felon? Capture her at the border? Really? She's an adult woman who can do whatever she pleases. Things like this always make it (the plot) horrible. I thought I'd give it a chance but this is one of my main pet peeves. Really creepy and at this point they're just stalkers. It makes me so furious that she can't live a peaceful life however she wants it without these people following her and trying to "capture" her. Like, let the woman live. They're her choices not yours. They're not your decisions to make. They want her to be a knight for life is what I'm getting from him saying "It'll be a national waste". It just makes me so sick that they're treating her like some runaway cat. Like she's their property. But if that's what you like to read I never judge. I'm just voicing my personal opinion. Please if you've read this far and have a different opinion than I do, tell me. Please. I need help trying to understand this.