sorry!!

mafuyu November 11, 2020 10:09 pm

not really digging everyone ganging up on jungwoo like this, dismissing him and saying "he needs to get help." ofc he has issues and some mental illness, and seeing a therapist/psychiatrist would hopefully help, but saying that totally puts the blame of his mental state entirely on him. its not his fault that his family and society won't give him a fucking break

obviously that doesn't give him the excuse to beat ppl up. but therapy isn't an easy fix-it that will cure you. its really hard to improve mental illness, and a lot of the time therapy isn't enough. everyday its fighting with your mind, and while therapy can equip you with the skills, you have to do it yourself, all the time. you're never really "cured." its tiring. which is why support is super important. kinda wish youngmin didn't get so mad at jungwoo when he was very paranoid

sorry i just love jungwoo so much! and i also dont have awesome experiences with therapy so yeah

Responses
    Bepsi November 12, 2020 12:36 am

    I understand where you’re coming from, but he needs therapy. He needs to get help. We know the reasons he’s like this isn’t his fault but he needs to take responsibility for his actions and work on himself. You can’t dismiss everything he does because of his mental illness and trauma, if he hurts people he still hurt people and needs to own up to it.
    (This is from someone who was a shit person because of anger issues, trauma and mental illness)

    mafuyu November 12, 2020 12:43 am
    I understand where you’re coming from, but he needs therapy. He needs to get help. We know the reasons he’s like this isn’t his fault but he needs to take responsibility for his actions and work on himsel... Bepsi

    i already said it doesn't excuse his actions. but therapy won't perfectly fix it. changes need to come from outside as well as inside. he needs a proper support system