
I think he was just feeling insecure because Nozomu has never really been sexually or romantically attracted to a guy until now, not to mention he was previously married, so I can understand why he was against the idea of going out with someone who was originally straight. Just didn’t want to set himself up for disappointment... but also why can’t we have more bi people in the yaoi universe ( ̄∇ ̄") I totally agree with you there-

Yes that kills me every time I read that in a yaoi. I’m like dude if that person was really that straight would he be able to do that???? With you???? A man????? Hahahaha. Or just becuz he dated girls before doesn’t mean that he’s unable to live you. If someday he doesn’t live you anymore that wouldn’t be because you’re a man I mean... it’s not like gay people don’t breakup or straight people too

I have an inkling that this yaoi was written by a woman, so of course the thought of bi men doesn't exist to her lol . Don't worry, I hate this trope a lot too. No one who's actually straight would just fall in love and be in a sexual relationship with someone of the same sex.. that means they were never straight to begin with.
I mean maybe im wrong but if he was straight i doubt he would even be able to get turned on by sex with a man let alone get rammed by one! He couldve just been bi and not realized it until later on! Like the whole “we cant be together cus ur straight” thing made no sense especially when they have sex allll the time like hes clearly okay with men i dont see the issue. do bi people just not exist in the yaoi universe???? Like PLSSSSSSS