bro im so disappointed, i thought this is gonna be a healthy and wholesome bl but i didn't...

It will be adorable and wholesome. Nothing bad will happen they aren’t toxic. I guess mirae just snapped cause of jealousy and because the guy he liked was “using” him. But it finishes soon

Just because you snapped doesn’t mean you have you sexually assault the person who made you snap. Seems pretty toxic to me but this is yaoi and it’s all going to be brushed over like always :|

I totally understand your point because that’s why I don’t like most Yaoi’ dot what makes me drop them. I fucking hate when they sexualize or normalize sex assault and rape, but I read read here and that’s not going to happen. That’s why I’m saying what I’m saying, here everything will be done with consent and they both gonna be wholesome.

Raws* and yeah I mean there was kinda sexual assault here as well but what I mean, ut won’t get further then that without consent. They will do it mutually and Mirae won’t like hurt him cause of jealousy or whatever like for example Yahwi (ducking hate that guy go die pls) did to Jooin in yours to claim (first webtoon I dropped, the mere thought of it makes me furious)

That’s great that you understand how yaoi sexualises and normalises sex assault and rape. However just because everything will be done within consent after doesn’t mean that the sexual assault didn’t happen. This is a yaoi and it will most likely get brushed under the rug and that’s the issue. Because it continues to normalise sexual assault in relationships. Sanghwa was clearly distressed but it most likely won’t be addressed as you said in the raws they continue on with consent.

I mean it’s great to know that nothing will further happen and hurt Sanghwa but it’s not “kinda” sexual assault that was straight up sexual assault. By the way, I’m not trying to argue or anything I’m just trying to get a point across and explain how this still normalises sexual assault. It’s sad but we see it all the time in yaoi. The two examples were prime examples of drop material. Fuck Yahwi LOL thanks for making remember that prick XD

I totally agree with u. Maybe I’m not that mad about this situation idk why, cause he’s better then other male leads, I’m really not sure. But yeah I fully understand u. I have friends who were raped and harassed before, in this man and all were by their partners. It’s traumatic and it makes my blood boil when people make it into cute rough relationship stuff just cause they are fwb or a couple. In Yours to claim, god no webtoon annoyed me as much as this one, people seem to also forget how Yahwi took advantage of Jooin the first night and didn’t even tell him they had sex like how fucked up is that? Then whole 3 next chapter of sex assault and rape (I couldn’t read it I skipped) AND APPARENTLY THATS WHAT FIXED THEIR RELATIONSHIP??? Like how fucked is that. And so many people glorify him, it’s sick. Also whole Painter of the night is sexualization of rape and I hate that, but it doesn’t fury me as much as yours to claim cause it has a reason at least. That’s how the times like that were before, how people acted, it’s realistic. But making up by being raped? That’s some serious mental issues.

Thanks for understanding and it’s nice to have a conversation with someone who can understand. I’m sorry that shit happened to your friends but I hope they’re doing a lot better now. It also does make my blood boil when it gets normalises and is labeled as “cute”. Also I dropped In Yours to Claim in a heartbeat the moment I saw that happening and wow I didn’t even know that that’s what what fixed their relationship. That sounds so stupid and it’s just kind of pathetic to see that writers can’t come up with a better and HEALTHIER way to resolve conflict. Just gross. Like if you wanna draw sexy scenes make it consensual? I don’t understand what’s so hard. And what’s worst is that it happens in stories where you don’t expect it to happen. Painter of the Night is fucked but you know it’s fucked, but In Yours to Claim it starts off as a cute and fine webtoon and BAM rape. It’s just sad :(

Yeah so the way they made up in Yours To Claim was first Yahwi forced himself and gave Jooin a hand job then forced him to give him a blow job and by that choked him and then raped him till he passed out. Next day he gave him cocoa in the morning and apparently they made up