the current seme is actually a lot more gentle in a lowkey way like he knows when enough is enough and actually cares about the ukes wellbeing whereas the ex was so possessive to the point of obsession, somewhere along the way the ex's affection turned into aggression
i honestly don't see much difference betweet his ex and the seme rn, they're both so possessive. i don't like taesung lol sorry don't hate me