i get that sitong's not a pushover and stuff, but is sitong never going to take action in his own love life? he likes zichen a lot, but he's totally comfortable with being idle, which ??? its hard for me to enjoy a character that doesn't seem to have any motivation, no drive to achieve anything themselves. like is it just gonna be zichen persisting until sitong gives in?
idk maybe its bc sitong is a bit too similar to me that im a bit resentful lol. i know this is not how it is in real life, which is fine. but if you want some kind of love life you have to actively pursue one and be responsive to other people, you can't just wait around for other ppl to notice you
also maybe slow burns aren't my thing. it gets so frustrating lol
i get that sitong's not a pushover and stuff, but is sitong never going to take action in his own love life? he likes zichen a lot, but he's totally comfortable with being idle, which ??? its hard for me to enjoy a character that doesn't seem to have any motivation, no drive to achieve anything themselves. like is it just gonna be zichen persisting until sitong gives in?
idk maybe its bc sitong is a bit too similar to me that im a bit resentful lol. i know this is not how it is in real life, which is fine. but if you want some kind of love life you have to actively pursue one and be responsive to other people, you can't just wait around for other ppl to notice you
also maybe slow burns aren't my thing. it gets so frustrating lol