Getting married to a child is still pedophilia. Just like child marriages between a child and an adukt. Even if they don't have attractions, it's still wrong
I agree with your point of view on this. I also want to add that these stories are based on ancient customs in which those who are 13 to 15 would be married off. Back then these things were acceptable in todays society it is not due to further understanding of the body and how one grows and develops. I believe most likely back then these were okay because the body matured faster and they did not live as long as we do. So it depends on the point of view you chose to look at this; one of modern times or one of ancient times. If you dislike these things that are based on ancient times that conflict with our views in modern time it is better not to read them at all. After all most people do tend to not waste their time on things that aggravate them, it's just not worth it.
Pedo means having sexual thoughts towards children. He only finds her endearing, and it is just a political marriage. There is nothing sexual between them. He properly waits for her to be of age. He is NOT attracted.