i get youre point but i think u didnt get mine. i wasn’t putting all the blame to chowon. i just want people to hold him accountable for what he did regardless of that factors that drove him to do those things. yes he was unloved but it still wasn’t an enough excuse for him to harm people who got close with dojun. chowon got obsessed with dojun. that’s the reason he did those things. again, im not putting all the blame to him but it was all his doing. he chose to do those things. also are we forgetting the fact that he harmed and nearly got heesoo be raped? and that happened years after dojun & him divorced. anyway, that’s all happened in the past. he’s having his redemption arc now. he’s learning now. he’s trying his best, at least. let’s just hope the best for him.
LOL WHY AM I SEEING PPL BLAMING DOJUN FOR CHOWONS BEHAVIOR KIDS STOP YALL ARE WHACK STOP LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO BLAME. WHAT CHOWON DID WAS ALL HIS DECISION. IT WASNT ANYONES FAULT BUT HIS. WHETHER HE WAS INFLUENCED BY HIS FEELINGS LIKE LOVE AND HATRED, HE CHOSE TO DO THOSE THINGS. YES HE NEEDED LOVE AND ATTENTION, I GET WHERE HE IS COMING FROM. BUT LETS MAKE HIM ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE BAD DECISIONS HE MADE IN THE PAST. ANYWAY, ITS NICE TO SEE HIM REGRETTING HIS PAST BEHAVIOR AND ACTUALLY APOLOGIZING TO PEOPLE HE HAD HURT. HE MAY NOT BE FORGIVEN BY OTHERS BUT ITS ALRIGHT AS LONG AS HE CONTINUES TO GROW AND LEARN. WE CANNOT EXPECT PPL TO ACCEPT APOLOGY AND FORGET THEIR BAD EXPERIENCES THAT EASILY. THATS ALL THANKS FOR COMING TO MY TED TALK.