I don't like kids... it's my personal opinion i don't want to force it to anyone...i just ...

Some people would call that selfish but i honestly believe that that us fact. You can move around perfectly and make your own decision when it's just you... However when there's a child involved everything changes. Like any relationship you can no longer make decisions solely for yourself cause everything you do you will need to have consideration for those involved. Welp I'm not a parent so I FULLY AGREE and support this. Maybe when we have a child our views and stand might change. Also we aren't sure just what type of plans seme has and if he's a good person or not yet.

Yes you get my point i respect that..and also idk about other ppl they can do whatever they want with their lives in the future..if they want kids let them do... personally i don't want kids i chose it for myself and some ppl criticize cause they say kids are happiness like dude chill you don't choose my happiness

EXACTLY! Like seriously for people like that i always say, "fuck off you won't be the one raising said child or paying their bills so don't you dare judge me or try to force your views on me." UNFORTUNATELY for me I'm a female so even if i don't want children the chances of me having children are high unless i abstain for life and even that isn't a guarantee cause yeah a lot of horrible things are possible...

If i EVER have a kid it won't come out of me that's for sure

Σ(っ°Д °;)っis it an alien then? lol sorry had to be silly

I’m here for this wholesome and reasonable discussion about child care. I totally agree that when you have kids, you can’t just think for yourself anymore because your decision also affects another person. However, I think the same can also be said for any kind of relationship right? Even as a couple, certain decisions you make will impact your partner as well, so you also have to consider them. Of course, there is more consideration for someone who will be a permanent fixture in your life (ie kids). Idk if I will end up having kids because I just don’t see myself having them. However, I honestly wouldn’t be opposed having them in the future either. Personally, I kind of don’t like the seme right now so I actually fully support the uke’s decision to cut off contact with the seme.

I believe I said that in the first comment I made. Btw which manga is this again?

Papa Sex Caramelized

Thank you so much. Gonna check if any new updates or if i have it marked

Np(◡ ω ◡)

I agree with this. Ngl my viewpoint of “kids” might triggered someone and people will probably hate me because for me kids is just like a parasite. The moment they exist in your womb they suck everything from you, from you freedom (making decisions, do whatever you want) to your financial and many more and you have to be responsible to them for like 18 years. And tbh I don’t really like kids and have no intention of having one but I’m not really abusive towards them, i just don’t like kids lol

Exactly, for example i don't mind some, SOME of the children of my cousins, but only cause i don't have them in my house everyday to take care of, i just go see them whenever i want and play but having my own kids that a big ass NO