I'm conflicted

... December 5, 2020 1:07 am

I like the premise of the story, I like the characters, and I even like the villains. However, I'm conflicted because of the FL. I feel like she's supposed to be a refreshing gust of wind, compared to the "normal and lady-like" women (whatever that means). However, I'm so frustrated by her lack of BOUNDARIES. This is a problem BEYOND consent. The lack of her respecting the ML's boundaries, his consent, and professionalism boggles my mind. I am frustrated with how her companions and even the ML enables her behavior; but even more so, I am appalled with the FL's lack of consideration for the feelings of others.

I don’t know, I'm going to continue reading but I just wanted to share my views (as of now). Hopefully I stop feeling annoyed lol. I do REALLY LIKE this story and the characters, but this last chapter made me very uncomfortable. Just because she's a woman doesn't make it any less creepy. If the FL was a man, the dynamics of this story would be different. Just because you are a woman, that doesn't mean you are nullified of being called out on harassment. Please! This is such a good story; please execute this story in a more... refined way. I don’t want to judge this story as "great idea, poor execution".

I'm sorry if I offended anyone or sound too sensitive but... I feel so compelled to read this wonderful story. And if this story is disgusting me or making me uncomfortable (even more than right now) I might drop this... I don't want this story to make me feel that way.

Responses
    LavaLulva December 5, 2020 1:56 am

    hmmm she does ask if ml doesn't like it after the kiss and he didn't reject nor did he reject physically, harassment isn't okay but if you thought about it the kiss was built up to and stuff. idk you're sorta right but i personally will still read the story

    Hersheys December 5, 2020 4:04 am

    I'm a lil bothered but I still like the story

    Hersheys December 5, 2020 4:04 am
    I'm a lil bothered but I still like the story Hersheys

    And the characters

    Anye1116 December 5, 2020 4:51 am
    hmmm she does ask if ml doesn't like it after the kiss and he didn't reject nor did he reject physically, harassment isn't okay but if you thought about it the kiss was built up to and stuff. idk you're sorta r... LavaLulva

    It's not just the kiss tho. Ok tbh I'm still on chap 12 and there's already a lot of harassment she has done

    "can I touch your buns?"
    "can you turn around? I need some excitement"
    Grasping the ML's waist without his consent

    The last one she did subconsciously which makes it even more of a problem.

    I'll read the story in hope for character development. It'd be unfair if I don't give her a chance like how I gave all the shit MLs

    Bumble Bee December 5, 2020 10:28 pm
    hmmm she does ask if ml doesn't like it after the kiss and he didn't reject nor did he reject physically, harassment isn't okay but if you thought about it the kiss was built up to and stuff. idk you're sorta r... LavaLulva

    I mean silence doesn't equal consent tho

    chanwoo supremacy December 6, 2020 7:41 am
    I mean silence doesn't equal consent tho Bumble Bee

    that is true but he didn't particular feel disgusted or uncomfortable with the kiss cause in the panels he didn't make a disgusted face but instead blushed. Plus the kiss wasn't exactly forced or rejected as LavaLulva said.

    nana April 30, 2021 7:54 pm

    everything of the fl is exaggerating to the point it irritates me, I am going forward because of the story