but the thing is he isnt a highschooler with a puppy crush- ofc he can like more than one person but hes a grown adult to my knowing. he doesnt need to be good at dating to know having sex/getting with two people after being asked on a date by one person isnt cool. its not okay to lead someone on like that without them being aware of whats going on. people can like 2 people but if the parties involved arent all aware of whats going on, its not okay.
if he isnt aware of how relationships work he shouldnt be in one, or he should be educated. being clueless about relationships isnt an excuse to cheat [this also includes emotional cheating; which hes doing now]
last chapter he accepted the date he was offered by Hwi. he cant just go off and get with someone else without Hwi being told either hes being broken up with or hes interested in a poly relationship.
just saying its nasty that yall are saying its okay for him to disregard Hwi's feelings in all of this. he literally asked him on a date ffs this isnt just puppy love or innocent crushes on them both, hes getting involved romantically with them both which isnt cool at all.
valid about what you said, im not excusing him for leading Hwi on I was mostly talking about people saying he needs to choose but I'm guessing I didnt covey that properly. But yes, i agree to what you are saying. He shouldn't be acting like this even without experience but I do believe he doesn't understand what he is doing can hurt others feelings, thats why i said he is more on the innocent aspect of dating. Also if I did sound like I am fine with how he is dealing with things I actually didn't mean to, I also dislike how he is handling things, I believe he shouldn't hang out with neither of them for awhile til he fully understands his feels towards the two men.
btw what i meant by highschool with a puppy crush was meaning of innocence, prob wasnt my best example cuz i am lacking brain cells lol
its all good bro lolol
i get what chu meant now haha dw dw im not good at explaining things either eye-
I'm glad we could come to a good ending (⌒▽⌒)
It was nice to talk to you in a civil matter
me seeing everyone disliking param telling him to make a choice (￣∇￣")
but seriously, i think hes just to innocent and simple minded when it comes to relationship things so i wouldnt really blame him for having a harder time knowing what to do plus you know that you can like more then 1 person? so dont act like liking more then 1 is wrong cuz its not. Honestly i just think his way of thinking (about relationships) is like a highschooler having a puppy crush, which is valid. Not everyone is going to be good at dating and know what to do, so honestly i just want Param to be happy and stay safe thats all