The other guy

I agree it doesn’t feel satisfying when they show the bad guy to be so charismatic yet vulnerable but the main love interest to just be..weak and his most desirable trait is his weakness..

Lmao weakness? Being vulnerable and intouch with your emotions isn't necessary weak. But shitty on a character who displays clear social anxiety traits is pretty weak. The uke is so much more than that, despite his differences he's still equal to the seme

Shitting*