Both the FL and ML needs therapy,,

Tasteless garbage December 23, 2020 1:32 pm

Im stilk not funsihed reading this but the FL is such a pushover maybe I'm feeling this cos IDK her back story but still... I pity the ML but some of his actions are really ehhhh, I kinda understands him since his past is so cruel but I really want to give him therapy atp

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    niki December 23, 2020 2:23 pm

    i accidentally disliked but yeah uh ML gives me manipulator and FL gives me idc as long as he’s happy you know

    niki December 23, 2020 2:24 pm

    i mean i guess it’s kinda working out but they both need psychological evaluation

    Tasteless garbage December 23, 2020 2:40 pm
    i mean i guess it’s kinda working out but they both need psychological evaluation niki

    As a person who went therapy IG I kinda hate it when characters who have f-up personality will "heal" or change bcos of women or love in general... It really doesnt work that way

    ChuYang December 24, 2020 3:48 pm
    As a person who went therapy IG I kinda hate it when characters who have f-up personality will "heal" or change bcos of women or love in general... It really doesnt work that way Tasteless garbage

    Um why does the FL need therapy because she's a 'pushover'? Being a 'pushover' is not really a thing that needs to be 'fixed'. Anyways it's quite clear why she is the way she is: because her emotions can (,and have) resonate(d) with others, especially Aseph's. And you're making therapy sound like it's only for people who do 'bad' things, here, even if you're making it sound that way unintentionally. (I know it's not that way since I've had therapy because I wanted to sort out what feelings I had after something happened TO me.) And, while people say intent ain't magic, they don't say there is no difference between intent and the lack thereof.

    niki December 24, 2020 4:46 pm
    As a person who went therapy IG I kinda hate it when characters who have f-up personality will "heal" or change bcos of women or love in general... It really doesnt work that way Tasteless garbage

    it’s so unrealistic it’s frustrating lol like you’re severely depressed then suddenly you find your soulmate and you’re cured like where’s the counseling or medication if only it was that easy

    Tasteless garbage December 24, 2020 6:06 pm
    Um why does the FL need therapy because she's a 'pushover'? Being a 'pushover' is not really a thing that needs to be 'fixed'. Anyways it's quite clear why she is the way she is: because her emotions can (,and ... ChuYang

    English is my 4th language so I think my thoughts didnt convey on what I really want to say but what i mean is the FL severely depends on others happiness before her and thats thats shown in many scenes. Resonating with someone's feelings is okay but putting your entire life and happiness for the sake of a person (who is kinda manipulating her) is harming in its own way. I used the word "pushover" since its the only English word that came on my mind that I thought was the best to describe her(my vocab is limited since I just started teaching myself English) . I'm honestly confused where did I imply that therapy is only for bad ppl,,, I went to therapy to understand myself better and to heal myself so Idgi why would I imply such a thing(where I was labeled as crazy just for seeking help), my statement just focused on the given characters and context?? My intent wasn't to stigmatized therapy so I'm baffled at your response....


    (I'm not mad or confronting you I'm just confused and explaining)

    niki December 24, 2020 9:32 pm

    oh no i only responded that way because i’m clinically depressed and go to therapy so i’m talking from my own experience but yes i completely agree i’ve not once seen FL prioritize herself and her happiness hopefully there’s a change later on :,)

    niki December 24, 2020 9:54 pm
    oh no i only responded that way because i’m clinically depressed and go to therapy so i’m talking from my own experience but yes i completely agree i’ve not once seen FL prioritize herself and her happine... niki

    omg forgive me i didn’t realize the comment wasn’t a response to me