I don't know but at first, I was ok and understand why Ripley just asked for a simple "sorry". Because the nobles have so much pride, they usually don't even want to say the word and would just try to compensate with money, etc. However, I agree with the part where she shouldn't dictate what Rosé should or should not do. Even though she wanted best for her, it is still isn't her place to say so.
But I think it's because Ripley knows the novel's story that she keeps acting like this and wants to control others because "that's how they should be in the books". In the end (of this chapter), she still hasn't changed. Even though she accepted the Duke, she still pushes the 2nd lead to the original FL — without consulting nor listening to their feelings.
I feel like she is just acting like all of this is in the book, and still isn't her reality, when it is (now her reality). I hope Ripley's character development happens soon because I was personally offended and pissed off by her choice of words here.
I was also ok with a sorry but in this case, noble or not, Rose still tried to kill her and it would have happened if the duke didn't come to her rescue. How can you forgive someone who tried to kill you? I mean, you can forgive if someone told you a little lie, anything little. But how can you forgive something that meant you could have lost your whole life?
It's not about forgiving since she won't forget anyway. She used words as if she would forget about all of that and acting like a saint while this is just being dumb.
And since Rose did that, it would clearly be obvious that she will continue to be what she is right now.
So yeah, this was a good thing to get a proper apology but in reality, who would accept an apology from someone who almost killed you? That's nowhere near the reality of any psychological phenomenon. Unless it wasn't intended but here, it was.
Anyway, yes, Ripley is not taking this as reality so she just act wrongly and doesn't take a proper approach to those characters. She might be better at this while drunk lol.
In this, Ripley is just being dumb. It's not her place to say what Rose should do or not do. I understand completely why Rose reacted like that. (I'm not talking about her pushing Ripley, this was too much, I'm talking about her reaction in the last chapter)
It's not about who is kind enough to forgive or not, and it's not Ripley's place to tell her that kind of thing. Ripley shouldn't even forgive that. Rose need to be scared, being put at her place, being kind won't do her any justice. That's why she should have asked something like money or anything worthy of her being quiet about the last accident. She needed to show her that actions come with responsabilities. She won't persuade the villainess if she doesn't play the same game as her. That's kinda dumb.