and ofc for all my verse (which u may all know as switches) companions don't think that you have to act a certain way because of your kinks. express yourself how you want to and if they on't like that they can leave you alone :) also, don't think you have to be 50/50 top or bottom. i think that's a common misconception: that all verses are 50/50 top, bottom. it's incorrect and can be harmful. do what's best for you ! drink some water and make sure you eat a proper meal ! ^ ^
also no, verse and switch AREN'T the same thing, switch is just a more common word used for both, but yes this also applies to switches if that wasn't obvi
Oml right I was about to type this exact same thing as well. There’s so much misinformation regarding BDSM and things like this just keeps reinforcing them.
so tired of bdsm being misrepresented like this and as if there's something wrong with people for liking it or taking on the notion that the masochist is really just an abuse victim who's "blinded" or "naïve" or w.e
OKAY SO SADIST=/=DOM=/= TOP and MASOCHIST=/=SUB=/=BOTTOM *ALL THE TIME* you can be a dominant bottom or a submissive top. you can be a sadistic bottom and a masochistic top. you can even be a sadomasochist but the doesn't mean you're predetermined at the top.
ALSO! not all masochists want to be slaves. masochists ca be slave owners and sadists can be slaves. BDSM is a way to express yourself and your desires so don't think that you're confined to one area !(づ￣ ³￣)づ