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Very good comment, really. So many people are like "sure, a hot guy will make everything better, she'll be happy ever after"... sure, his looks are definitely going to make her scars disappear and dissolve all the sadness and other negative feelings within her.
but in case you dont went through something like what she did, dont call a person annoying because they have principles to uphold. especially when that principle is a personal belief and not harmful. distrusting marriage institution is common, and people with trauma cant just gloss over the root of the problem because some hot rich emotionally unavailable childhood friend comes back into their lives tugging on their weakness to get them into a contract marriage....the whole guilt tripping situation is already very complicated but now we know she has a deep seated trauma so of course she wont throw herself into a marriage just like that. shes practically unraveling and unbecoming because every choice she makes, be it marrying or not marrying yejun, will bring her emotional scars. can fault a girl for taking her time to think things through, methinks