The four-eyed coworker

moody_bish January 21, 2021 12:28 pm

I lovr how he addressed that a woman's role isn't demeaning at all and questioned Sakurai for even thinkinf about it like that.

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    bluecherry January 21, 2021 3:12 pm

    I liked that too but at the same time I kept hoping they would stop referring to it as “the woman’s role”.. Hibiki doesn’t identify as a woman and no gay man should be referred to as taking the “woman’s” role if that’s not their gender identity, they’re taking on their role within the relationship and that should have nothing to do with gender roles

    moody_bish January 22, 2021 1:04 am
    I liked that too but at the same time I kept hoping they would stop referring to it as “the woman’s role”.. Hibiki doesn’t identify as a woman and no gay man should be referred to as taking the “woman... bluecherry

    True! I mean from the few gay friends i have, they use "bottom" and "top" as a general term. I was too focused on the "woman's role" for women in general, that i didn't think about in Hibiki's usage as a gay (although, he was crossdressing or like being trans so it became easier to just relate it to a woman's perspective as well)

    QueenBeaver February 1, 2021 9:19 am
    I liked that too but at the same time I kept hoping they would stop referring to it as “the woman’s role”.. Hibiki doesn’t identify as a woman and no gay man should be referred to as taking the “woman... bluecherry

    I've always found it weird as well, but it does seem slightly more natural when I'm reading in Japanese, so it could be that the terminology is less offensive by Japanese standards. Could also be that I simply read too much yaoi though, so I can't say for sure. ^^