I get what you guys mean when some of you called it being a dumb decision, but to those people who have anxiety, depression, always overthinking and low self esteem, this is a common knowledge.
It's not about being dumb, it's about them not getting enough confidence to think of positive and always ended up thinking negative about things they don't know how to handle. as the story goes on, the reason he can't choose the right thing is because they've been together for the past 5years, and shougo on the other hand been in love with mitsuru since the time they met and treasures mitsuru when they got together even though Shougo know that Mitsuru's heart wasn't sure about what to do.
The story has a lot of meaning about society.
First, * Gay couple is still not acceptable in a lot of contry. * A Family who can't accept their children the way they are. * Gay people who keep hiding in the closet and decided to get married just to hide the truth about them in society.
Second, * Being manipulated by someone even though you don't have the same feelings anymore. * Over thinking of things that ended up into negative thoughts. * Low Self-esteem that ended up not being able to tell the truth on what they wanted to do. * Anxiety about being worth or not to the person they want to be with.
Lastly, * Trust is what you needed in relationships. * Communication to show them what they really what to do. * Giving Chance to change and fix it properly. * Treasuring each other after a big problem settled down.
Everyone can do it if they have enough confidence that they deserved it. As for those who have low self esteem, it might be a bit difficult to do those things but they have to overcome those anxiety and do things they wanted without thinking of what would the society will say.
It's your life, you have to do what you wanted to do, God Gave it to you to handle things that you wanted to do, other people doesn't have the right to tell you whatever they wanted you to do, you're not a toy, you are yourself and you're not worthless.
If you keep thinking that you're worthless, you won't be able to achieve the freedom to do what you want.
Make those thoughts an example that you have to move forward so people of the society accept you the way you are. if they still refuse you, there still a lot of people around the world who will accept you even if you didn't meet them.
I get what you guys mean when some of you called it being a dumb decision, but to those people who have anxiety, depression, always overthinking and low self esteem, this is a common knowledge.
It's not about being dumb, it's about them not getting enough confidence to think of positive and always ended up thinking negative about things they don't know how to handle. as the story goes on, the reason he can't choose the right thing is because they've been together for the past 5years, and shougo on the other hand been in love with mitsuru since the time they met and treasures mitsuru when they got together even though Shougo know that Mitsuru's heart wasn't sure about what to do.
The story has a lot of meaning about society.
First,
* Gay couple is still not acceptable in a lot of contry.
* A Family who can't accept their children the way they are.
* Gay people who keep hiding in the closet and decided to get married just to hide the truth about them in society.
Second,
* Being manipulated by someone even though you don't have the same feelings anymore.
* Over thinking of things that ended up into negative thoughts.
* Low Self-esteem that ended up not being able to tell the truth on what they wanted to do.
* Anxiety about being worth or not to the person they want to be with.
Lastly,
* Trust is what you needed in relationships.
* Communication to show them what they really what to do.
* Giving Chance to change and fix it properly.
* Treasuring each other after a big problem settled down.
Everyone can do it if they have enough confidence that they deserved it.
As for those who have low self esteem, it might be a bit difficult to do those things but they have to overcome those anxiety and do things they wanted without thinking of what would the society will say.
It's your life, you have to do what you wanted to do, God Gave it to you to handle things that you wanted to do, other people doesn't have the right to tell you whatever they wanted you to do, you're not a toy, you are yourself and you're not worthless.
If you keep thinking that you're worthless, you won't be able to achieve the freedom to do what you want.
Make those thoughts an example that you have to move forward so people of the society accept you the way you are. if they still refuse you, there still a lot of people around the world who will accept you even if you didn't meet them.
Have Self Confidence.