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can be any genre, but mc chooses the other hair colored person over the black hair. i feel like black hair always wins. i want to see some diverse hair colors!! #dei
no but like fr plzzz it lowkey gives 2ndml syndrome and thats so me i loooove unexpected endings/relationships. i also hate when ppl end up with their first love, call me jaded

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does anyone know of any transmigration/reincarnation stuff where the fmc actually has real romance experience? i guess a more mature mc, where she's had prior romantic relationships cs im sick n tired of watching grown women act like 12 yro girls. i dont mean gooning material, btw, i want like a real story with strong female characters. i dont mean like badass/man hater, i mean well rounded with flaws and someone who doesnt hate femininity (apparently thats the definition of a "strong woman" in a lot of these stories)

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  • Author: TSURUKAME Mayo
  • Genres: Yaoi

with a little bit of development/fleshing out this would be a 10/10 genuinely i am so in love with this its one of my all time faves

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it's more common to tip at restaurants/diners and the like. if you're ordering a coffee at starbucks and don't tip, they don't gaf, trust me. like others said, tipping is a way to transfer responsibility from employers to customers in paying the employees. it's messed up, but yeah america is capitalist! fuck capitalism! rather than saying americans......
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go easy on yourself. you put the weight of the world on your shoulders and told yourself pressure makes diamonds, but you shone the brightest unburdened by expectations.
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its this manhua (chinese), shounen ai. age gap i think?? basically this dude thinks this plant is going to kill him i think its some system thing idk but he sorta acts like a child i think bc of trauma? idk but the ml is older, more gentle.

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i think a lot of people use the phrase "it's just fiction" to justify their behavior, when oftentimes such extreme reactions are rooted in genuine, internalized hatred or emotion, whether they're cognizant of it or not. i've noticed this too, actually, where female characters are hated on simply because they're paired with a man that certain fans ......
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im talking slowwwwwwww burn romance of any genre, preferably a storyline where romance isnt even the main plotpoint. idc about bl/gl/bg anything that will actually make me lose my mind at how genre-defying and amazing it is. i will NOT have shitty love interests that are weirdly perfect at everything, they must be flawed, they must have genuine character growth, they must not be toxic assholes and if they are they MUST show tangible development as a result of external plot, not JUST the mc being "oh boohoo ur trauma is valid." also my biggest turn off is when side characters are just plot devices/the main leads are shitty to their friends like guys....
does this even exist? lol

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i just read mission: save the hunter and its not finished and so im itchingggg for stuff thats mainly action with some sincere/genuine romance sprinkled in. I NEVER see stuff from the bl/gl genre thats mainly action with romance being the side stuff so plzzz recommend if you have any. even bg stuff, if the characters are good/the development of the plot and relationships feels genuine and not arbitrarily derived from the fact that oh! the two main leads are a man and a woman, therefore! romance! thx

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anything where the second ml wins? or second fl idk. no yaoi, if its mlm then it should be shounen ai. thanks!

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basically a romance where SOMEONE is bi and there's some drama around that like if its mlm then there's also a girl whos a viable relationship or whatever two girls and a guy. Basically like "that summer." Plzzzzzz help

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hi looking for webtoons/manhwa/manga/manhua that feature strong female relationships whether it be familiar friendships just bonds in general. bonus points if it’s a historical or transmigration thing, double bonus points if it’s a GL where romance isn’t the focus

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Searching for a manhwa/manhua with supernatural elements and some BL elements as well. Really pale white haired guy who is blind but later reveal his younger self to have white eyes. He did an oopsie so his eyes got closed forever or something. He raises a child. The first few episodes is him raising this child who has black eyes and black shaggy hair, sometimes tied up in a ponytail.