I CANNOT STOP TWINKling's feed

What’s the point of making a level headed/supposedly mature and chill ml when the mc’s the one to chase after him if he’s supposedly only pursued physical relationships and never made the first moves according to him? It would’ve been so much better if he groveled for the mc to stay since be realized he’s never had it good in relationships before.. tbh the dynamic was flat and predictable and overly use in yaoi