I randomly get so depressed and I hate it so much. I can be in the happiest state of my life, good social circle, a job, working out, but then slowly I feel depression kick in and I give up on maintaining my life, I've lost so many friends over this :(. I feel like I'm always depressed but it just gets worse on some days sometimes even months and I...... 1 reply
I'm always constantly anxious to the point where I have stomach issues (tmi) and there's no extreme reason for it other than my anxiety is always there. Theres always extreme dread just sitting in the pit of my stomach and I try to to occupy my mind by watching a movie or doing something fun but I can't even focus bcs I feel so restless. ☹️☹...... 3 reply
I've been working on the same fanfic chapter for over a month now and I'm still so hesitant to share it. Each time I open google docs to work on it its like I find something else that can be "fixed"/changed. For the perfectionists writers out there. How do u get over the crippling fear of inadequacy? 1 reply
you can't! hope this helps
serious note genuinely exposure therapy is the best way. Force yourself to join communities, talk to people, find ways to surround yourself with people ex a job in customer service etc. Imo medication helped me the most in my case it was ocd that led to ruminating thoughts after every social interaction. 1 reply
I forgot I even made this topic. Anyways my intention wasn't to rage bait I was just sharing my opinion. But if u feel like that's the case then maybe you just feel called out over the double standards you've placed upon yourself. Regardless enjoy what u enjoy im muting ts 3 reply
I'm not even trying to be woke (because consent is sooo woke/s) but like consent is genuinely so sexy and I don't get how noncon is so normalized in "romance" fiction to the point where authors think fans prefer it (a lot do ngl). Like the thought of someone wanting you so badly, and being so attracted to you, and seeking you out, and giving you the okay to do the devils tango and merge souls with them is soooo hot. Consent is genuinely really sexy
I don't get it atp lemme just read straight manwhas. Plus I feel like a lot of straight porn manwhas etc gets a lot of negative comments and low ratings on here but it's quite literally the same shit in the average yaoi just straight