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I’m gonna have to disagree with you on this. His original plan from the beginning was to use and discard her and the trauma she has is not just from the end where everything came to light and her family was killed and she committed suicide. She has trauma from how he treated her throughout the whole marriage. He was cruel and cold and yet acts like he is deserving of everything and just because she is his wife he owns her and she should give him her all. She tried to be a good wife to him, but also lived in his cold and careless personality the whole time well he constantly cheated on her. Why should that ever be redeemed?

Also some other things
He does not love her. He’s merely a man who wants control and he could never control her in a way that was satisfactory to him.
He never bothered to learn anything about his wife or care for her. Having an a partner like somebody said is observing them and learning about them through other cues besides direct speech and he didn’t even take the time to talk to her let alone learn about her.
If you care about somebody, you should be willing to open up the conversation as well be the person to ask what’s wrong or what’s bothering you in case they do not have the courage to start the conversation themselves. Many people struggle with asking for help or bringing up what’s bothering them and need somebody to create an opening in any type of relationship especially one of marriage.
He killed her father- I mean come on
He kidnapped him in the second life
He wanted to utterly destroy her family and her family‘s business.
He took her away from her home and her family when she was young, which was common at the time, but it doesn’t mean you should just leave your spouse alone to fend for themselves where they have no connections no family, no experiences or knowledge of the place and nowhere to feel comfortable.
Honestly, there’s a lot more to unpack with this and of course she wasn’t perfect either and there are other factors but ultimately that would be her staying in an abusive neglectful and depressing marriage and nobody deserves that

absolutely agree with this 100%

I'm gonna add: he killed her father and, then, hid it and tried to baby-trap her so that she couldn't leave. (Who the heck would be able to trust him again, after??)

I mean: she must have figured it out since she died knowing that by then, he was (at least) actively trying to get her pregnant

Yes. This couple could have been salvaged. Very poor communication from both sides. They both love each others, but they are all persuaded that the other hates them, which seriously did not help.

I am just make one fact clear here.
He did not cheat on her. They were just informants; one got ahead of herself thinking she was special and self-proclaimed herself a mistress. She believed her friend's lies over ascertaining the truth.