
True closure, especially in romantic relationships, is about facing your own negative emotions in the face of ambiguity and uncertainty.
How fortuitous it would be if life lines up in such a way to allow for the "perfect ending" (can there even ever be?) but humans and situations don't fit in boxes that way. Sometimes seeking that external closure only prolongs your own suffering and becomes a crutch or stall tactic that keeps you from doing the actual self work to move forward.
Just some real life advice after reading this chapter ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~