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There's a difference byul,even tho your mom wasn't there,you still were loved by all the other family members,you were but a child, you saw the pictures, learnt things,you can't possibly remember every single moment he wasn't there for you when you were a child, but hyesung remembers, because his mother never came back,he never got to live a happy life,was abused also I don't remember,but was it even consensual?(Just from 3rd person's pov,I don't blame either of them)
Honestly tho hypothetically if my mother were in a similar situation,I would rather prefer to not be born and that she lives her life well.